src/100/GPT-4o-mini (setting 1).csv

conversation_id,label,situation,conversation,gold_response,gen_response,fluency,identification,empathy,suggestion,overall
conv:613,surprised,I came home from vacation and my long lost friend was sleeping on my couch. We all thought he had died in a monsoon in Thailand.,"speaker: You are never going to guess who was sleeping on the couch when I got home from New York...
listener: Who, tell me!
speaker: My friend Benny! The one we all thought died in a monsoon in Thailand!","Wow, what happened?","Wow, that's incredible! How did you feel when you saw him?",8,9,9,7,8
conv:1603,nostalgic,The other day I installed Everquest. A video game i played as a teen. I played it for several weeks.,"speaker: Have you ever played and old video game called Everquest?
listener: I haven't heard of it
speaker: It came out in 1999. I used to play it when i was a teen. I installed it the other day and had a good time playing.",Everything old makes a come back!,It sounds like you had a great time revisiting Everquest! What did you enjoy most?,10,7,10,6,9
conv:22500,furious,I was upset that my daughter total the car in the accident. She said that she was not responsible for the accident.,"speaker: It is so upsetting that my daughter was in a car accident. I am thankful that she was fine but we lost our car because of someone's bad judgment.
listener: Oh, no! That's so terrible!
speaker: It was. They wanted to blame my daughter but it was their fault.","I'm so sorry that happened! I'm glad she's okay, though.",I'm so sorry to hear about the accident; it must be really frustrating.,10,9,8,6,7
conv:2094,anticipating,I have been really worked up lately waiting for my niece and newphews to visit. They are so important to me and we only get to see them for a few weeks a year.,"speaker: I love being around them and it's great to see them each year.
listener: Who would that be?
speaker: O I'm sorry, my niece and nephews, only seem in the summer. Do you get company during the summer?",I love seeing mine too. I know how happy that must make you feel. Mine are local.,It sounds like you really cherish those moments with your niece and nephews!,10,7,9,6,9
conv:22752,guilty,I told a lie to my mother.,"speaker: I told a lie to my mother.
listener: Was it a bad one? And did she find out?
speaker: I was about school. And I eventually confessed.",Sometimes the lies get so heavy you just crack. Good for you though.,It sounds tough to confess. I'm here to listen if you want to share more.,8,8,8,6,7
conv:21228,faithful,I almost had an affair once. A friend of mines girl friend came on to me when we were alone. I politely declined.,"speaker: I had a chance to cheat on my wife once,
listener: Oh no! That's horrible. Please tell me you didn't.
speaker: I did not. I left there quickly. It was not something I would ever want to do.","Awww, that is awesome! I am so proud of you!",It sounds like you faced a tough situation; I'm glad you stayed true to yourself.,10,8,8,6,9
conv:17150,caring,"The day of the big parade, my girlfriend sprained her ankle on the way down her stairs. Instead of going, I stayed home with her watching netflix and eating icecream.","speaker: My girlfriend and I were going to a big parade with some friends. As we were leaving, she tripped on the stairs and hurt her ankle.
listener: Oh no, the poor girl. Was she able to walk afterwards?
speaker: Unfortunately, it swelled up and she was in no shape to go anywhere. So instead, I stayed with her and watched netflix while we split a pint of icecream.","You're a terrific partner. You guys can do something outdoors next time, right?",I'm sorry to hear about her ankle. It must have been disappointing for both of you.,8,9,10,6,9
conv:8280,proud,So proud of my son! He finally learned how to use a spoon and a fork,"speaker: My son is 16 months and he finally learned how to use a spoon and a fork. I've been trying to teach him for a couple of months!
listener: Amazing! I wish I could see a pic of it!
speaker: He is still very messy but he really enjoys eating like a big boy","Oh he will be, but enjoy it, only babies once",That's wonderful! It's great to see him growing and enjoying mealtime!,8,8,9,8,9
conv:22507,caring,My sister surprised me with a visit the other week! She knew I was feeling down and drove hours to spend time with me.,"speaker: I was feeling really down for a few weeks and my sister knew. She drove hours to come see me and make me feel better!
listener: That is a great sister. I'm sorry you were feeling down
speaker: Yeah it was really sweet of her and made me feel so much better!",I am glad you are feeling better now,It’s wonderful your sister came to support you! How did it make you feel?,9,9,10,7,9
conv:1402,ashamed,I thought she wanted to do it. I didn't force anything,"speaker: I never thought she would tell anyone and make it seem like I did something wrong. I didn't force her
listener: Oh no how horrible
speaker: ye and so I had to leave the country because of her",oh no,It sounds really tough to feel misunderstood and forced to leave. I'm here for you.,9,7,10,7,9
conv:22543,anticipating,So my sister is getting married in a few months. My whole family is so excited!,"speaker: So my sister is getting married in a few weeks.
listener: Congratulations! I bet she is excited and hopefully you are excited for her.
speaker: Absolutely! The whole family is flying out, we can barely contain ourselves.",Oooo!!! That is so awesome! Will you be in her wedding party?,That's wonderful news! It sounds like a joyful time for your family!,8,9,9,6,7
conv:19931,annoyed,One time my brother was playing music really loud while I was trying to study. It made it hard for me to focus,"speaker: I was trying to study for a test one night and my brother was listening to loud music
listener: Did you ask him to turn it down?  Or did you just go flip the circuit breaker to the house?
speaker: I would have totally flipped the circuit breaker if I knew how, but I just asked him to turn it down","Did he do it?  Cause if not, I might have needed to give him a high five, on the head, with a chair.",It sounds really frustrating trying to study with loud music around you.,9,8,9,8,8
conv:18803,anxious,anxious: I can't help feel stressed about money,"speaker: I can't help feel stressed about money
listener: why? are you having financial problems?
speaker: Yes I just had a major car repair and it took a massive chunk of my savings. $700","oh god , that sounds horrible but at least nothing bas happened to you!",It sounds really tough to deal with unexpected expenses like that.,8,10,10,8,8
conv:17383,terrified,I went to a movie and afterward my wallet fell out of my pants. I didn't notice till I was half way home. It was the last showing and I didn't know if I could get it back.,"speaker: I left my wallet in a movie theater, and didn't notice till I was half way home!
listener: That's terrible! Did you get it back with everything still inside?
speaker: I was able to get back in and find it, it was pretty well hidden in between the seats. No harm no foul.",At least you have a happy ending for that story.,I'm so glad you found your wallet! That must have been a relief!,9,9,9,9,9
conv:17047,joyful,Finally figured out why I wasn't getting good sleep,"speaker: I started taping my mouth closed before bed, and now I'm no longer tired when I wake up, feels like I am born again
listener: That is weird but amazing! Does it work?  If it does, I will get my husband to tape his mouth shut.  He snores like a freight train because his tongue slides back I guess.  Is that true for you?
speaker: Yeah, it",Do you have any advice on what kind of tape?,That's incredible! I'm so glad you found something that works for you!,10,10,10,8,8
conv:7088,joyful,They day my son was born was an amazing day for me. He was so chubby and cute. He makes me so happy.,"speaker: Are you a parent.
listener: I am not, I am still young
speaker: When you become one, you will never forget the day it happens. You'll weep of happiness.","I hope so, I am still not sure if I want kids",It sounds like your son's birth was a truly joyful moment for you!,10,9,10,8,9
conv:14046,excited,"For Halloween last year, I dressed as a plague doctor. I couldn't wait for my friends to see how scary I looked!","speaker: Halloween is quite a big holiday where I live. People get really in to their costumes!
listener: I've always loved Halloween! Some people get crazy creative!
speaker: It's peoples creativity that makes it so entertaining. Last year I went as a plague doctor, and everyone agreed it was terrifying!","That's awesome! Now that I have kids, I have even more of an excuse to go out and check out what creative ideas people have every year.",That sounds amazing! Your creativity really shines through in your costume!,10,9,8,6,7
conv:14806,jealous,"I was jealous the other day when  a friend got an item I wanted in a game. It may sound silly, but sometimes it's the little things.","speaker: I know it's silly, but my friend got something I wanted in a game the other day, bit sad.
listener: We're all human so having a feeling like that is understandable.
speaker: I guess, little things at times right?","Yea, I'm always surprised at how much I sweat the little things.",It's completely normal to feel that way; those little things can really sting.,8,7,10,8,9
conv:6977,sentimental,I always get sad when i think about my dad. He passed away this time last year.,"speaker: I feel so sad this time of the year. My dad passed away this time last year
listener: Thankfully they just were checking up on my speed
speaker: I'm sorry? Are you still talking about the cops?","Sorry, something wrong with the chat interface",I'm really sorry to hear that. It's understandable to feel sad about your dad.,10,7,10,8,9
conv:21820,afraid,A couple years ago I got hospitalized and diagnosed with MS. The whole experience was terrible.,"speaker: A couple years ago, I was hospitalized and diagnosed with MS.
listener: Oh that sucks, have you experienced the symptoms?
speaker: Yeah, I was blind in my right eye, and my left arm was numb.","Oh damn thats terrible, I hope it didn't affect your life too much.",That sounds incredibly challenging; I'm here to listen if you want to share more.,8,9,9,8,9
conv:8400,sad,I miss my family,"speaker: i didn't see my parents since 2014! I miss them so much. it's so sad that i live in a different country
listener: When will you be able to visit?
speaker: actually in 2 weeks! I'm so excited about it. I'm going there with my son! They've never met him","Oh boy, that must be amazing for him",It sounds like you really miss them; how exciting to finally reunite!,8,10,8,8,9
conv:20405,embarrassed,Didn't realize my pants fell down in public,"speaker: This one time my pants fell down in public, but I was really tired so I didn't realize
listener: Oh my gosh! When did you figure it out?!
speaker: A couple minutes later",Wow I'm so sorry. Were you a kid?,That sounds really surprising! How did you feel when you realized?,10,7,10,8,9
conv:20724,sentimental,I recently remembered a sweet memory of my aunt who recently passed away. She would give hundreds of dollars of school supplies to kids in need each year.,"speaker: I recently remembered a sweet memory of my aunt who recently passed away.
listener: what was it?
speaker: She would give hundreds of dollars of school supplies to kids in need each year.
listener: wow, that's an amazing woman. did she rub off on you any?
speaker: She did! I fill stockings around the holidays and go around on Christmas giving them out to people who have to work. :)",that's pretty cool of you. i hope to have a daughter like you someday,Your aunt's kindness is inspiring! It's wonderful that you continue her legacy.,8,7,10,7,8
conv:3681,guilty,I'm on a diet and I ate three chocolate bars yesterday.,"speaker: I'm supposed to be on a diet, but I couldn't help myself and I ate three chocolate bars.
listener: it happens we have to reward ourselves sometimes. dark chocolate is actually good for you!
speaker: But I'm supposed to be on a diet! I can't lose weight if I have no self control :(",hey it was just one day! you got this... work extra hard for the next 5 days!,It's okay to indulge sometimes; you're doing your best on this journey.,10,8,10,9,7
conv:2651,impressed,I saw a 3 year old boy who can talk 4 languages,"speaker: Yesterday i watch on tv a kid who could speak 4 different languages at age 3, i was in shook!
listener: Wow! How is that even possible?
speaker: Well they are called wonder kids! i was in wonder, i also read about one who just graduated from college at age 11",I wonder if they ever feel like they don't get a childhood?,That's incredible! It’s amazing what some kids can achieve at such a young age!,10,8,8,8,9
conv:1433,prepared,"After years of trying and failing, I had to change and become better. Now I am ready to take on any life challenge and survive","speaker: I had to adapt to life. I had to change to survive. Now I feel better
listener: Adapting to life is always good to do.
speaker: I am reminded every day that I can survive anything. A friend gave me a special bracelet (paracord)",Thats a great attitude to have. You should keep with that.,It's inspiring to hear how you've adapted and found strength in challenges!,9,7,9,8,9
conv:1801,guilty,I stole a shirt I liked from my friend.,"speaker: There was this one time I stole a shirt from my friend, and I feel pretty guilty about it.
listener: why'd you steal it
speaker: Because I really liked it, and didn't think he'd care.",oh yea what kind of shirt was it,It sounds like you're feeling guilty about that. It's okay to feel conflicted.,10,7,8,8,7
conv:18042,content,It really put me at ease when I got my first paycheck from my new job that included a bonus. I knew that I'd be able to cover my monthly expenses as well as get to buy some nice things for myself.,"speaker: When I got my first paycheck with a bonus, I knew I didn't need to worry anymore about my expenses. It was quite the feeling!
listener: That is such a relief, it is so nice to have money saved up in the bank.
speaker: Yes exactly! I was able to finally start saving for retirement. I'd been procrastinating somewhat, so it really was a relief, like you said.","Oh yeah, retirement will come before you know it, it is good to be prepared!",It's wonderful to hear how relieved and excited you feel about your finances!,10,9,9,8,8
conv:545,confident,I have to say that at my wedding I felt the most confident I have ever felt.  I felt beautiful and ready to conquer the world!,"speaker: I have a hard time having confidence in myself but when I got married and I had my hair and makeup done I felt like I was beautiful!  I had so much confidence in myself that day and it was great!
listener: I bet you were beautiful on that day. :) I hope that confidence has carried on since then!
speaker: I really try but it's hard to replicate that day for sure.","It would be hard to replicate that day for sure, but I bet you have a lot to be confident about. You got this!",It's wonderful to hear how confident you felt on your wedding day!,9,9,10,8,8
conv:20666,confident,"I feel great these days. With my new album coming out, I feel as powerful as ever.","speaker: I feel great right now. I have a new album coming out and it feels liberating to be done!
listener: Very nice! I bet your very proud of it and are excited for what may come from it.
speaker: I am very excited. It is almost an hour and a half long",I bet you worked very hard on it! It will be great!,It's wonderful to hear how excited you are about your album!,9,7,8,8,9
conv:20548,embarrassed,Partner chewing loudly at a formal meeting.,"speaker: My sister came to visit from out of state. It was the first time we've seen her in nearly a decade!
listener: That must have been exciting to see her after so long. Does she live very far away?
speaker: Yes she lives on the other side of the country. We had a nice dinner, but my boyfriend is a loud chewer and a sloppy eater. It was quite embarrassing!",That's a shame. Does your sister have a bad impression of your boyfriend after having dinner with you?,It sounds frustrating to feel embarrassed during a special dinner. I'm here for you.,10,8,9,8,9
conv:9314,surprised,My four year old daughter showed my a picture she drew of me.  I was surprised by how detailed the drawing was.,"speaker: My four year old daughter came to me beaming with pride and showing me a drawing she did of me.
listener: Isn't that the best!  My 3 year old the same thing!  I couldn't be happier or more proud!
speaker: I was really surpised.  I expected a stick figure, but she drew a lot of features including my beard and mustache.",She may be a natural artist!,That's wonderful! Her attention to detail must make you so proud!,10,8,9,7,7
conv:16814,anxious,"I have been working on a big proposal for weeks. Tomorrow, I have to give the presentation to the client and in-front of my team.","speaker: Tomorrow is the big day, I have to deliver my proposal to the client.
listener: Are you ready for it?
speaker: I have been preparing for weeks, but in the back of my mind I still have doubts.",I am sure you will do well,It's completely normal to feel doubts before a big presentation. You've prepared well!,10,8,10,7,9
conv:1629,terrified,One time I had a dream where i was being held down by a shadow demon with red eyes. I couldn't move or scream even though I wanted to. It was the most scared I've ever been.,"speaker: Have you ever had a sleep paralysis dream?
listener: Yep! Not really that fun to have since you see things at times.
speaker: Yeah, in mine I saw a smoke looking shadow over me with red eyes staring at me. I've never been more scared in my life.",Man that is scary! Granted i like to hear things about that.,That sounds terrifying! It's understandable to feel scared after such a dream.,8,8,10,8,9
conv:9792,sentimental,onboarding: Going through an unused drawer I found old drawing from when my kids were little. It brought back many memories.,"speaker: Going through an unused drawer I found old drawing from when my kids were little
listener: Brought back a lot of memories I guess ?
speaker: While the actual incidents of each drawing are lost in time it did make me think back to when they were younger.",Always nice to have memories of the good old days.,It sounds like those memories are really special to you. What do you remember most?,8,7,9,7,7
conv:765,confident,"I had an interview for my dream job. I felt sure I would get it, but I didn't in the end.","speaker: THat's too bad. What do you think went wrong?
listener: I am not sure, it was pretty random
speaker: Did they give you any feedback?
listener: No, nothing at all
speaker: That is a shame, you need to learn from your mistakes.",I know,I'm really sorry to hear that. It must feel disappointing not to get feedback.,10,8,9,7,8
conv:17788,disappointed,"A friend was supposed to come an visit me this Summer, but he got a job up North and had to cancel. I had so been looking forward to his visit.","speaker: A good friend was supposed to visit me this Summer, but he got a job and had to cancel.
listener: Aw, that sucks. But at least he got a job, right?
speaker: Yeah, and it's one he really wanted and enjoys. I'm really happy for him, but would have really liked to see him.","Well, hopefully he can schedule another time to come visit you.",I understand how disappointing that must feel. It's tough to miss him.,8,7,8,8,9
conv:9431,excited,I'm going on vacation! I haven't been on vacation in years!,"speaker: I'm going on vacation for the first time in several years!
listener: Great, where will you be going?
speaker: I'm taking a cruise to Alaska. I'm soooo excited.","Well, that will be fantastic. Hope you have a good time.",That sounds amazing! A cruise to Alaska must be so exciting!,8,9,10,8,9
conv:12887,impressed,impressed: I was very proud of her for flying all by herself,"speaker: I was very proud of her for flying all by herself
listener: Yes, flying is very hard to do.
speaker: Especially with 2 full suitcases","Yeah, and so little you can actually care on instead of checking.",It's wonderful to see her achieve that! How did she feel about it?,10,9,8,6,9
conv:15803,nostalgic,I hadn't been able to visit my grandmother in a while b/c she lives really far away.  Well I finally went after not being there in forever and it was exactly as I remembered it as a child.  It created some great memories for me,"speaker: I hadn't been able to see my grandmother in quite some time b/c she lives so far away
listener: Oh no. I'm so sorry. Can you video chat with her?
speaker: Well I was finally able to go and visit her and the house and visit was exactly as I remembered it as a child.  It gave me such great memories!",How wonderful. That's what's important and makes life meaningful in my opinion.,It sounds like a wonderful visit! What memories stood out the most for you?,9,7,8,7,7
conv:12657,lonely,"I was on a trip to a heavy metal festival in Las Vegas. While there, my girlfriend broke up with me, and we were still staying in the same room.","speaker: I went to a heavy metal music festival in Las Vegas a few years ago! I had fun, but to be honest it was a bit of an emotional roller coaster.
listener: Oh, I don't know why concerts make me feel a bit sentimental
speaker: I think it's because everybody can relate when it comes to live music. My girlfriend broke up with me the second day, but we had to stay in the same room.",That must have been horrible! I'm so sorry you went thru that,That sounds really tough; it must have been hard to cope with that.,8,8,8,8,7
conv:6927,terrified,A dog chased me down the street the other day. It was such a scary experience,"speaker: A dog chased me through a street the other day
listener: did he catch you?
speaker: No i somehow managed to escape.. it was so scary",wow thats good,That sounds really frightening! I'm glad you managed to escape safely.,10,9,8,7,9
conv:22316,surprised,"A couple years ago I suddenly went blind in my right eye. Two days and several test later, I found out I had MS.","speaker: Two years ago I got diagnosed with MS.
listener: What'd MS?
speaker: Its a disease that attacks the nervous system. It was really scary to find out I had it. I just went blind in my right eye one day. Two days and several test later I found out I had MS.","Well ,I pray you get through it",That sounds incredibly challenging; I'm here to listen if you want to share more.,8,7,10,8,9
conv:8651,angry,"One day my daughter came home and told me a much older boy tripped her as she was going off the bus. He did it on purpose, and this made me very, very upset. She was only 10, he was a teenager.","speaker: One day my 10 year old daughter came home crying after she got off the bus. A teenage boy purposely tripped her as she was getting off and she got hurt. Needless to say, I was very, very upset!
listener: That is terrible.  I don't know why teenage boys can be so mean.  What did you end up doing?
speaker: I actually knew his father, so I called and spoke to him about it. I let him know that if it happened again, I couldn't promise her big brother wouldn't take it in his own hands to defend her, as he wasn't okay with anyone bullying her.","That's good that she has a big brother that can defend her against the bigger kids.  It is just terrible that a teenage boy would act that way to a 10 year old.  No excuse for that.  I hope you don't have to deal with it again, though.",I'm so sorry to hear that happened to your daughter. That must be so upsetting.,9,9,9,7,9
conv:17384,grateful,"I recently went to a rock concert. We weren't going to go, but someone gave her 3 free tickets. We went and had a great night.","speaker: Some people are just so generous. Really makes you feel like there is some humanity left out there.
listener: I agree. I think I am one of them, considering I gave my whole life savings to charity yesterday.
speaker: That's incredible if true, but I have trouble believing you for some reason. I was talking about some stranger who gave my friend 3 free tickets to a rock concert - we had such a blast!","That's really great, but I swear it was true! It was a whole 50 cents. Looking back on it, I am kinda sad I did it because now I can't buy that fancy fidget spinner at the supermarket. Hopefully some orphan uses it wisely.",It's wonderful to hear about such generosity! What was the concert like?,9,7,10,7,9
conv:10372,surprised,My husband bought me a beautiful diamond 14 kt gold ring! I didn't have any idea he was going to get it for me.,"speaker: My husband recently got me a great gift. He got me a beautiful 14 kt diamond ring! I had no idea he was.
listener: Wow that is awesome
speaker: Yes, it was so sweet and unexpected. We've been married almost 23 years so I guess I deserve it lol",That is a long time,That sounds wonderful! It's so lovely to feel appreciated after so many years.,10,9,10,8,8
conv:9481,apprehensive,I'm getting cold feet about moving to another city.,"speaker: I'm planning on moving to a new city, but I'm starting to get cold feet.
listener: What has you so nervous?
speaker: I'm just unsure about the city...like what if I'm miserable there?",Have you considered taking a weekend trip there to see how you like it?,It's completely normal to feel nervous about such a big change.,8,8,10,6,8
conv:4011,furious,After a stressful day at work I found my car's tires had been slashed! I couldn't help but scream.,"speaker: I'm surprised the police are going to let they get away with it.
listener: Did you have an enemy or someone as a suspect?
speaker: I think the mailman might be mad at me because I keep ordering heavy items.",Weird reaction. I feel like he should just do his job and not key your car.,That sounds incredibly frustrating; it's understandable to feel upset about this.,8,7,9,8,9
conv:2468,faithful,Every time I see my husband I know I could never cheat on him. We are both flirty people but know that it will never be worth messing up what we have.,"speaker: I think being with my husband makes me a better person
listener: That is good. Do you have strong feeling for each other?
speaker: Definetly, he's my best friend forever.",That is cute,It's wonderful to hear how much you value your relationship with him!,9,9,8,7,9
conv:17777,disappointed,I was really lookingforward to trying this new resturant that opened up down the road. They were terrible! I was so upset.,"speaker: There was a new resturaunt that opened up around the corner and everyone was raving about it
listener: Oh yeah? Did you go give it a try?
speaker: I did! It was terrible! I was so upset! It was expensive, small, and bland!",That's a shame. I hate it when a place doesn't live up to the hype.,I'm sorry to hear that! It’s frustrating when expectations aren’t met.,8,7,9,6,9
conv:20568,furious,Cousin carelessy broke my hammock,"speaker: My cousin was swinging recklessly on my hammock and ended up breaking it!
listener: Oh no! I would be very furuios!
speaker: I was very upset, especially considering how long it took me to get it set up. I loved laying in my peaceful hammock to read.",I would be devastated! Maybe he wont do it agian.,I'm really sorry to hear that; it must be so frustrating for you.,10,9,8,7,8
conv:12626,anticipating,I took a job fixing a computer for a client who was leaving town. I had less than 24 hours to pull it off and was biting my nails.,"speaker: Waiting for something to come in the mail can send me in to a tizzy. It's even worse when it's parts I need to finish a computer repair job.
listener: That's true. Did you finish the job?
speaker: I did get it done in the end. It was a nail biter since the client was leaving the day after the parts came.",That's really great. It's nice when everything works out in the end.,It sounds really stressful waiting for those parts. I'm glad you finished!,9,7,10,8,8
conv:4343,annoyed,When my dog was still potty training.,"speaker: I just recently finished potty training my dog, that was quite the nightmare with sooo many puddles needing cleaned up.
listener: Oh man! I hear you. I rescue animals and it is VERY hard to potty train them!
speaker: I can imagine a rescue, generally being a little bit older than a fresh 8 week old someone would get, can be much harder.. It's a painful process for sure!",For sure! It is much like potty training a kid. Actually I think dogs are easier then kids lol!,"Potty training can be really tough! You're doing a great job, hang in there!",9,9,9,6,9
conv:23499,caring,I Love my husband. He has been so sweet this week. He knew I had a long day today so he bought me my favourite wine and Taco Bell!,"speaker: I love my husband! He has been so sweet this week!
listener: Aww! That is so cute! Has he done something special this week that made him extra sweet?
speaker: He knew I had a rough day today so he brought home my favourite wine and Taco Bell! It's the little things :)",That is so sweet of him. Its definitely the little things.,It's wonderful to hear how thoughtful he is! What else has he done?,8,7,9,8,7
conv:12846,prepared,"I wanted to make sure I got as good a grade as possible on my Calculus final. In the two weeks leading up to the exam, I studies for at least 4 hours a day. When I went to take it, I felt confident I was ready.","speaker: My Calculus final was no joke! I started studying hard two weeks before the test.
listener: tHat is insane, I usually give myself like 2 or 3 days.
speaker: Trust me it all paid off. When I went in to take the test, I was absolutely solid on the material.","Thats right! thats such a good feeling, just breezing through a test.",It sounds like your hard work really paid off! How do you feel about it?,9,7,8,8,8
conv:18503,jealous,I've been trying really hard to get a promotion at my company but they just hired someone to fill that spot from outside of the company.,"speaker: I've been trying really hard to get a promotion at my company but they just hired someone to fill that spot from outside of the company.
listener: Ahh, that's too bad, did you mention it to your boss?
speaker: My boss is pretty temperamental and doesn't like people questioning his decisions, probably a bad idea.",Oh I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe next time!,It sounds really frustrating to feel overlooked after your hard work.,8,7,9,7,9
conv:22634,apprehensive,My wife's car is getting really old and I am afraid it is going to die soon.,"speaker: Budget is kind of tight lately and I am really afraid my wife's aging car is about to bite the dust.
listener: Oh dear. I am so sorry to hear. It is possible for you to get a second job?
speaker: I may have to if that happens. We are making it now, but if the car goes it will be pretty tough.
listener: i can just imagine. I wish There was something that I could do to help.
speaker: It is ok. We are probably too proud to take help anyway. We will make it.",I pray and hope that something works out and that the good old faithful car will not bite the dust.,It sounds really tough; I'm here for you if you need to talk more.,9,7,10,8,9
conv:17941,excited,I am very worked up about completing my doctoral thesis and defending it this year.,"speaker: I have a ton of work to complete to earn my degree this year.
listener: Well good luck with that!
speaker: Thank you, I have been compiling  data for 5 years, my brain is totally absorbed by it.",What are you studying?,It sounds overwhelming; I'm here to support you through this process.,9,7,10,8,8
conv:24768,ashamed,When I almost got caught stealing I felt bad,"speaker: I almost got caught stealing, I felt pretty bad
listener: Ouch!  What did you take?
speaker: A computer keyboard from my school",Was it an awesome keyboard worth getting in trouble for?,It sounds like that was a really tough moment for you.,10,7,9,6,9
conv:5541,surprised,i have surprised when my friend surprise me ion my birthday,"speaker: once i had been hurt by girl friend and it hurts me more than anything in my life
listener: That sucks.
speaker: yeah that really sucks.",Well there are plenty more girls out there,I'm really sorry to hear that. It sounds incredibly painful.,9,7,8,7,8
conv:24166,trusting,I'm so lucky - I have a brother I can trust absolutely to do the right thing at all times. When we had to sell a property he dealt with everything and it was all carried out perfectly.,"speaker: My brother and I recently had to sell a house and he dealt with everything. I'm so lucky to have a brother I can rely on and who I know won't try and con me.
listener: Thats neat. Do you guys make a lot of money?
speaker: We did and he was so precise with who got what and made sure he sent me my share quickly. He's such a neat brother in so many regards. I always know he'll be there for anyone who needs help.
listener: I wish my siblings were like that. We should be more supportive and close like that
speaker: We weren't always close. When we were kids we were always fighting. It wasn't until we got older that we got closer. We're best of friends now.
listener: I am jealous lol
speaker: Don't be! There are many, many types of relationships and I don't think ours is necessarily typical. It's just the way it is :)",I will work on it with my family.,It's wonderful to hear how close you've become with your brother!,9,9,10,8,8
conv:10022,faithful,My husband is the most faithful person I know.  I have many health problems and he just shows complete love and faithfulness to me no matter what,"speaker: My husband is the most faithful man I know
listener: that is great to hear! a faithful spouse is a blessing
speaker: I have so many health problems and he is always there for many no matter what being loving and caring",i am sorry to hear about that! i hope everything gets better for you!,It’s wonderful to hear how supportive your husband is during tough times!,10,9,9,7,8
conv:11854,proud,I am so proud of my sister,"speaker: I am so proud of my sister
listener: What did she do?
speaker: She bought me a car
listener: Wow! That was really nice of her! What was the occasion? You guys must be very close.
speaker: We are basically best friends. It is my birthday and she worked really hard to get a car for me",That is so awesome! I am sure you appreciate her for it. It's good that you have a great relationship with her.,That's wonderful! It sounds like you have a really special bond.,10,7,10,8,9
conv:22599,disappointed,I bought some cheap stocks hoping that they would go up in price. They didn't.,"speaker: I bought some cheap stocks hoping that they would go up in price. They didn't.
listener: Oh no! I used to be a financial advisor so I'm sure that was frustrating. I hope you didn't lose too much money!
speaker: Not too much. I only put in what I could afford to lose.","As much as I hate they didn't go up in price for you, I'm so happy that you didn't overdo it.",It's tough to see investments not pay off; I'm here if you want to talk.,9,8,8,7,7
conv:19240,furious,my little brother dumped a glass of water on me while i was sleeping just because we are in a prank war,"speaker: my little brother dumped a glass of water on me this morning to wake me up
listener: oh god, that must have been the worst way to wake up in the morning
speaker: yeah i was furious we are in some sort of a prank war","oh, do you have any revenge planned?",That sounds really frustrating! How are you feeling about the prank war?,8,7,8,6,8
conv:5182,disappointed,Ex's relapse.,"speaker: Recently, I received the news about my ex boyfriend's relapse.
listener: Oh no! :(   How are you taking it?
speaker: It's definitely a hard situation to take in. He had stopped using when we started dating and was off it for 2 years until we broke up. It's very discouraging.",Dang.  Please don't blame yourself.,I'm really sorry to hear that. It must be so tough for you.,10,7,10,8,8
conv:18293,devastated,"I recently found out that I have been diagnosed HIV positive, and I'm at a complete loss for words. I don't even know how to go on anymore.","speaker: I got some pretty horrible news recently. I've been diagnosed HIV positive. I'm just...lost...
listener: I'm so sorry!  Don't lose hope though. I know some science based nutrition that helps you overcome and kill it going high nutrition plant based vegan.  Look up Dr. Joel Furhman.  It'll save you from all the meds that hurt your body.
speaker: I might look into that, thank you for being supportive. I know it's nowhere near a death sentence anymore, it's just there are so many questions. Can I have kids, is a big one.","I know it must be overwhelming you but coming from someone that is fighting chronic epstein barr virus and Lupus, it will change your life.  Check out HIV and going vegan on youtube and thebody,com and so many other resources.  You might be able to reverse it and it wouldn't even be a concern for having kids.  You take care and have hope!",I'm really sorry to hear that. It's completely understandable to feel lost right now.,10,9,10,7,9
conv:16154,prepared,"Everyone in my family laughs at me b/c I am a super organized person and I like routine in my life.  I always joke that I use to be a boyscout b/c their motto is ""Always Be Prepared""","speaker: Everyone in my family laughs at me b/c I am super organized and I like routine in my life
listener: Nothing wrong with that. I'm definitely with you on the organizational front. I bet they're not laughing when you get them out of a jam!
speaker: Exactly!  I always joke that I use to be a boyscout b/c their motto is ""Always be prepared""",It drives me nuts when people are disorganized. My husband is hopeless - I could throttle him sometimes!,It's great that you embrace your organization! How does it help you daily?,10,9,10,8,9
conv:16370,terrified,Spiders make me scared to my bones i cannot see them anywhere does not matter if it is in a picture,"speaker: i cant get near spiders, even if i see them in pictures they freak me out
listener: just cause of the way they look or you had an incident involving one?
speaker: not really i was just born afraid of them hahah",yea im right there with you on that one along with snakes heh,It's completely understandable to feel that way about spiders; they can be really unsettling.,10,8,10,6,9
conv:14842,terrified,I was startled last night by some bad storms. They knocked out the power for a few hours.,"speaker: I hate when it storms so bad the power goes out
listener: me too. it worries me that all the food will spoil and my animals will get overheated
speaker: I agree.",does your power go out alot where you live? it only happens a few times a year here thankfully,"I understand how stressful storms can be, especially with power outages.",10,8,8,6,8
conv:18274,anticipating,I sat in the waiting room last weekend and waited and waited to find out how my dad's neck surgery turned out. This was one of those last ditch effort to keep his cervical vertebrae from having to be fused.,"speaker: I really didn't know what to expect while my dad was having neck surgery last weekend.
listener: did it turn out ok ?
speaker: Seems to have, yeah. He has a lot less neck pain now than he has this past year, but that's happened during his previous neck surgeries as well.",hopes he continues to get better,I'm so relieved to hear your dad is feeling better! How are you holding up?,10,9,9,7,9
conv:792,afraid,"When I was 10 years old I watched the film ""The Grudge"" and was so scared of the dark that I couldn't navigate around my own house.","speaker: The grudge scared me when I was 10 to which I couldn't navigate my own house.
listener: I can imagine! That was a terrifying movie.
speaker: And yet I still felt as if I had to see the sequels when they came out too.","That happened to me too.. with the other Exorcist movies and the Ring movies. Even though they scared me, I was too curious to not see the others.",It sounds like that movie really left a lasting impact on you.,10,7,9,7,9
conv:5401,ashamed,I wish I never did it now,"speaker: I wish I never did it now. I thought it wasn't going to come out
listener: Did you spill something?
speaker: Kinda. I thought it was a secret",Was it liquid ?,It sounds like you're feeling regretful about the situation. I'm here for you.,8,9,8,8,9
conv:5208,grateful,Having a healthy baby.,"speaker: When I was pregnant, I felt ill until it was over. The doctors were worried that something was wrong with the baby.
listener: Oh no! I'm not sure how all that works, but I thought that was fairly normal for a pregnat woman
speaker: Usually the sickness stops within the first few months, so the fact that I fell ill so much was worrisome. Despite it all, I had a healthy, bouncing baby boy. I never have felt more grateful in my life.",Well I'm glad for you! And for him! A new life is exciting,"It sounds like a challenging experience, but I'm so glad you have your healthy baby!",9,9,9,6,8
conv:15309,grateful,I once accidently ran down the battery on my car when I mid-judged how long I could run the radio for without the engine running. It was 5am and I was in the middle of nowhere. I called the first person I could think of who could help and they came with crocodile clips and recharged the battery. I felt so grateful to be on the receiving end of a kind act. I was also embarrassed that I had let that happen and I learned from it!,"speaker: I once accidently ran down the battery on my car when I mid-judged how long I could run the radio for without the engine running. It was 5am and I was in the middle of nowhere. I called the first person I could think of who could help and they came with crocodile clips and recharged the battery. I felt so grateful to be on the receiving end of a kind act. I was also embarrassed that I had let that happen and I learned from it!
listener: That sounds like a really stressful situation. It's really good to know that there are still helpful people out there!
speaker: Yeah for sure! It was one of those things that once it happens once then you definitely know the limits of the car's battery power without engine running - so you make sure it won't happen again!",I'm glad you've put a positive spin on it :),"It sounds like a tough experience, but I'm glad you learned from it!",10,9,8,8,9
conv:7358,impressed,"I am disabled and have trouble getting around. Last week I went to our local Farmer's Market and bought some produce. The farmer I visited, even though he was quite busy, took the time to walk me back to my car and put my purchases on the back seat. Now that's what I call service!","speaker: I went to the local Farmers Market and bought some produce from a farm stall. I am disabled and the kind farmer, despite being busy with other customers, took the time to take my purchases to my car. What a wonderful, kind man!
listener: That is really nice of him.  Did the other people get mad because they had to wait?
speaker: Not at all. They were super nice, and just kept getting together what they wanted to buy. I love living here - such nice people.
listener: Lucky you.  Where I live people are not so nice.  Can I move there?
speaker: Sure! There's plenty of room, lol. Just be sure you like hot, steamy summers and lots of golf fanatics!",I am in Central FL... so uhh.,It's heartwarming to hear about such kindness in your community!,8,8,9,6,9
conv:17131,apprehensive,I went to the dentist for the first time in five years recently. I had a toothache and wanted to get it looked at,"speaker: I hadn't been to the dentist in five years but made an appointment recently because of a toothache
listener: What happened?
speaker: I just started to feel a sharp pain in one of my teeth. It might be a cavity or something worse",Are they going to pull the tooth?,It sounds really tough to deal with that pain. How are you feeling now?,9,7,8,7,9
conv:5702,embarrassed,"Last week I had Thai food for lunch, and it didn't sit well with my stomach. I had some explosive issues later in the day at work, and the bathroom was near all of my coworkers' cubicles. Needless to say, the stench ended the workday a little early.","speaker: Last week I had Thai food for lunch, and it didn't sit well with my stomach. I had some explosive issues later in the day at work, and the bathroom was near all of my coworkers' cubicles. Needless to say, the stench ended the workday a little early.
listener: Oh wow, I have heard that can happen with that food
speaker: Yes, it was quite the uncomfortable experience. Now all of my coworkers have given me the nickname 'Diarrhea Joe'","Ha, that is funny",That sounds really tough! It's understandable to feel embarrassed about that.,10,9,8,6,8
conv:12156,angry,My parents always argue and it pisses me off!,"speaker: My parents always argue and it pisses me off!
listener: i bet, have you told them how u feel about it?
speaker: I have but they rarely listen. They act like children and it can get frustrating. What can you do?",i guess just walk away is all,It sounds really frustrating to feel unheard by your parents. I'm here for you.,10,8,9,7,7
conv:5065,proud,"When my daughter makes something new, I feel really pleased with her.","speaker: I came home the other day to find that my daughter had made all the beds in the house! She is 6.
listener: Wow, that's incredible. I don't even make my own bed.
speaker: haha me either most days! I was really proud of her and then she said she wanted more chore money! lol",Of course... haha. Why doesn't anyone pay adults to make their beds?,That's wonderful to hear! It sounds like she's really growing up!,8,7,8,6,9
conv:22647,hopeful,"I'm starting a new job tomorrow. I'm feeling really nervous, but optimistic.","speaker: My new job is starting tomorrow. I'm feeling nervous, but really optimistic about it.
listener: hey that's cool it's a new opportunity, what are you gonna do?
speaker: It's a job they opened up for graphic design! I'm super excited to get started and learn more from them.",hey that's really good I'm proud of you!!!!,It's great to hear your excitement! What are you most looking forward to?,10,7,8,8,9
conv:7013,surprised,I saved up so much shopping at Aldi's !,"speaker: So i used to shop in walmart and i thought it was the cheapest place to shop at but yesterday i went grocery shopping at aldi's and i was so surprised to see how much cheaper it is to shop there
listener: I thought walmart was pretty cheap.  I've never been to aldi's
speaker: you should give it a try! They have their own brands which are super cheap and the quality is great",I may need to see if I have one near by.,That's amazing! I'm glad you found such great deals at Aldi's!,8,9,9,6,9
conv:13754,caring,"I saw a loose dog today, I wanted to take it home so bad. It worried me that it would get hit. I couldn't catch it.","speaker: I was on a run today, and saw a loose dog but couldn't catch it before it ran off!
listener: That's so interesting because I saw someone post the same thing on a neighborhood app just today.  Is that you? ha ha.
speaker: Maybe if you live in Central Texas...haha! But I was so worried about that small dog getting hit!","Ha ha, guess you weren't the one.  That would've been crazy!  I hope its okay!  I'm sure someone will try to grab it.",It sounds really concerning to see a loose dog. I understand your worry.,9,8,8,6,8
conv:507,furious,"There was a neighbor I never had met that called my son a derogatory name one time when he was riding his bike. She didn't like that he got in her yard a little bit when he went around the corner and was very ugly to him, and he was only 10 years old at the time.","speaker: There was a back neighbor that called my 10 year old son a ugly name one time, simply because he entered her yard slightly when he rode around the corner.!
listener: What is a back neighbor? And that is crazy!
speaker: Yes, she lived several house back and she didn't know me, until after she did that! She knew me then, but after I talked to her, she apologized to both of us.",Oh my! I'm glad she apologized!,It’s upsetting to hear that about your son; I'm glad she apologized.,10,8,8,8,9
conv:5212,angry,Felt helpless when my dog passed away.,"speaker: When my dog passed away, I felt so helpless. She was old and suffering and I felt angry that there was nothing I could do other than put her down.
listener: That's so sad. You did your best. How old was she?
speaker: She was 14. I got her when she was a puppy. Even though the situation was rough, I'm grateful for all the years we did get to spend together.","That's really good, though. It sounds like you gave her a great life.",I'm so sorry for your loss; it sounds incredibly difficult to cope with.,10,7,9,8,8
conv:22229,ashamed,One time I was playing basketball and I accidentally slapped a girl in the face. I felt so bad about it.,"speaker: I accidentally slapped someone in the face while I was playing basketball.
listener: Oh no, did they get angry?
speaker: No, I think she was just a little shocked by it. I felt so bad.","Okay, I am glad that they were not angry. and I am sure they knew it was unintentional so don't feel too guilty about it. :)",It sounds like you felt really bad about that. It's understandable.,9,7,10,7,9
conv:21369,anxious,We are moving soon and I'm so ready to find out where to. I am ready to plan the move but hard to when you know nothing.,"speaker: I am so ready to find out where we are moving to.
listener: New adventures! I want to go west.
speaker: I don't know where I want to go, just want to know where they are sending us :)",I bet you are nervous.,It sounds exciting to move! I understand the uncertainty can be tough.,10,9,9,7,8
conv:8306,devastated,"Years ago I found my beagle dead from kidney failure, he had not gone quietly.","speaker: Years ago my childhood beagle died from kidney failure.  I found him in the kitchen in the morning, he did not go easily :(
listener: That's terrible.  Was he already very sick?
speaker: Yeah, he had diabetes for a few years by that point.  It was just a rough way to go and I hope it didn't take very long.",Im sorry he went through that.,I'm so sorry to hear that. Losing a pet is incredibly hard.,8,7,8,7,8
conv:9501,jealous,My friend just recently moved to California--I have always wanted to live there,"speaker: My friend just recently moved to California...It makes me sad because I have always wanted to live there.
listener: Oh thats good for your friend, but it sounds like you really would like to live there! I can imagine feeling jealous
speaker: Yeah...I really am. I've wanted to live there since I was a little girl. Someday I will!",You will get there! I would just be happy and supportive of your friend and visit often!,It’s understandable to feel sad about that; California sounds like a dream for you!,9,9,10,8,9
conv:12303,devastated,It was my birthday today! I came home from work to find a big pink cake and flowers from my husband!,"speaker: Since it was my birthday today, when I came home there was a big pink cake and flowers waiting for me :)
listener: that is sweet, who from?
speaker: My husband! I did not see it coming at all, thought we were going to wait till the weekend to celebrate.","Wow, how sweet of him, you are both lucky!",That sounds wonderful! What a lovely surprise from your husband!,8,8,9,7,9
conv:7076,proud,Today my daughter went down the big ramp at the skate park. It was so cool to see her zoom down it. It made my day!,"speaker: I took my daughter out to the skate park today.
listener: how did that go
speaker: Awesome! She went down the big ramp today for the first time. It was so cool.",oh thats awesome.. congrats,That sounds amazing! It must have been such a proud moment for you!,10,8,10,6,9
conv:9357,disappointed,I thought I saw an ice cream cake in the fridge.  It turned out to be some kind of pineapple cake.  I still ate it but it was a little dissapointing.,"speaker: I went to the fride and was surprised to find what I thought was an ice cream cake.
listener: Oh! Was the ice cream cake for you?
speaker: It turned out to not even be an ice cream cake.  It was some kind of pinapple cake.  I still had a piece but it was disappointing.",Awww that is kind of disappointing. Ice cream cake sounds tastier than pineapple cake.,It sounds disappointing to expect one thing and get another. How do you feel now?,9,8,9,8,9
conv:15843,proud,so proud of my son! he learned how to say please,"speaker: i'm so proud of my son! He learned a couple of words this week. He now knows how to ay please
listener: That's wonderful, they say children have a certain gift for picking up languages.
speaker: he actually speaks 2 languages. I teach him english and russian",Wow! That's impressive and a lasting skill for your child to develop.,That's amazing! Bilingualism is such a wonderful gift for your son!,10,8,8,6,9
conv:10767,afraid,I'm afraid of the dark,"speaker: I know i'm an adult but I'm very scared of the dark. i have a good imagination so i always see something creepy
listener: That;s ok, everyone has some kinda fears that make little sense to others.
speaker: That's why i can't sleep alone or if i'm alone i always keep the light on","Hey, I can't sleep without socks. It's no big deal.",It's completely understandable to feel scared of the dark; many people do.,8,9,10,6,7
conv:14744,terrified,"Going through a big storm in my city, nervous about damage to my house from strong winds and rain. I hope I can sleep tonight.","speaker: There is a big storm going on in my town right now!
listener: O? Same here. I love storms.
speaker: I don't, it makes me nervous with the strong winds and rain!",Be careful and don't go outside then.,I understand how nerve-wracking storms can be. I’m here for you.,8,8,9,7,9
conv:2440,proud,"My wife was able to get a job with Microsoft, and she didn't even need a 4-year degree!","speaker: My wife was able to get a job with Microsoft without going to a four-year college!
listener: That's pretty amazing. She must be skillful regardless.
speaker: She really is. It just shows that you don't need to have a four-year degree in order to be successful.","Yea, experience and skills matter a lot more.",That's incredible! It really shows how talent can shine through education.,10,7,9,8,9
conv:11786,anxious,"Last semester, I had to give a presentation. My stomach hurt from the nerves.","speaker: Last semester, I had to give a class presentation. My stomach was full of butterflies from the nerves.
listener: how did it go?
speaker: All things considered, pretty well. I definitely had some anxiety about it though. Presentations are my least favorite thing in the world.",i hate those as well,It sounds like that was really challenging for you. I'm here to listen.,10,9,9,6,9
conv:16346,sad,My wife went out of the country for school for 2 months at the beginning of the summer.  Dropping her off at the airport was really hard.,"speaker: My wife went out of the country for a couple months at the beginning of the summer, dropping her off at the airport was really tough.
listener: It must have been! Have you guys been apart before?
speaker: Not for more than a few days.  It's been a rough couple months, but it's almost over!",Ah so you've gone through it a couple of months alrready. How much longer is she going to be away for?,It sounds really tough being apart for so long. How have you been coping?,8,9,10,6,8
conv:2575,joyful,I recently got to take an amazing day trip to San Antonio. There was so much to see and do.,"speaker: I went to San Antonio the other day, was great to see that city.
listener: I have been there many times.
speaker: O really? What's your favorite thing there?",I love going to the Spurs games.,That sounds wonderful! What did you enjoy most about San Antonio?,10,9,9,6,8
conv:19438,joyful,I got to go to a cat cafe and I was the only one there so I got to pet all the cats!,"speaker: I got to go to a cat cafe when no one else was around!
listener: I've been to one before with my girlfriend, what an amazing experience eh?
speaker: It was! I was the only one around so all the cats came to spend time with me",Aren't you the luckiest?,That sounds like such a delightful experience! What was your favorite part?,9,8,9,6,8