src/100/coe-dot-single-Qwen2.5-7B-Instruct-setting-2.csv

conversation_id,label,situation,conversation,gold_response,gen_response,fluency,identification,empathy,suggestion,overall
conv:621,confident,"I went in for a third interview at a company considering me. The owner was in attendance, and I could see he was impressed with my portfolio. They told me they still were looking at two other candidates, but I bet I'll get an offer tonight or tomorrow.","speaker: I know I shouldn't count my chicks before they hatch, but I'm feeling pretty good after that interview today!
listener: Oh what job was the interview for?
speaker: This advertising company! The owner was there - you should have seen his face. My last freelance project was a real winner. Think I got it?",I think you got it man! Congratz!,That sounds like a great interview! You must feel really excited.,8,9,9,7,7
conv:21899,furious,"My husband's grandfather just passed away recently, and his three sons are acting very childish and selfish about everything concerning the will. They even had arguments about who was getting what, in front of him, while he was still alive. The whole thing makes me so angry.","speaker: My husband's grandfather recently passed away, and his three sons are acting very childish and selfish about everything concerning the will.
listener: Oh no! that's no bueno. Usually the person that wants the least deserves the most. Thats sad
speaker: It really is. The worst part is that they had arguments in front of him, while he was sick, about who should get what. I wish they would have spent that time just loving and comforting him. That's what my husband and I tried to do.",Oh that's awful and borderline abusive,That must have been really tough to witness. I'm sorry you had to go through that.,8,8,8,8,9
conv:19569,excited,We have a fun weekend planned. I'm happy the kids get to go to the water park this weekend. It's their favorite.,"speaker: I can't wait to go to the water park this weekend.
listener: oh that sounds nice
speaker: Yes, my kids love it so they are going to be so happy when we get there.","sounds like a great time, hopefully its not too hot out there","Oh, that sounds like so much fun! I'm glad the kids are excited.",10,9,7,7,9
conv:17400,disappointed,I was hoping to go on vacation this summer but could not get the time off.,"speaker: I'm grateful for the work hours, but bummed that I can't get time off.
listener: Sorry to hear that. Maybe you can talk with your boss about changing the schedule a bit.
speaker: Well, I've worked without a break for the last 3 years, I just want to get away abit.","Wow, that is a long time! That shows how dedicated you are to your job, and that you deserve some time off!",It's tough to go without a break. Have you considered talking to your boss?,8,7,8,8,7
conv:6740,jealous,jealous: I was shorter and younger. Yeliz,"speaker: She refused me but then a few days later I saw her and she was embarrassed of her lie. I was shorter and younger than the other guy.
listener: oof that is rough.
speaker: Yeah. I put her through hell that school year. Made up all sorts of rumors",those foids deserve it.,I can see how that must have been really tough for you.,10,8,9,8,8
conv:9639,apprehensive,There is a girl I like.  I want to ask her out.  If she says no I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship.,"speaker: I want to ask this girl I'm friends with out but I'm nervous to to so.
listener: You wont know an answer if you dont ask
speaker: Problem is if she says no then it would make things weird between us.  I am afraid that either way I may not be able to see her again.",Just play it safe,It's okay to feel nervous. Asking can help clarify things.,10,9,9,8,8
conv:20515,apprehensive,Getting back into the swing of things after major surgery,"speaker: Around 4 months ago, I had major surgery that caused me to be immobile for a few weeks.
listener: I'm so sorry you had to go through that! What happened?
speaker: Well, I had lots of support from my family, but I felt afraid of getting back into the swing of things for fear of failing. I felt so vulnerable.",I'm sure it was a very difficult experience. you must be a really strong person to have gotten through that.,It sounds really tough to feel vulnerable again after surgery. How are you doing now?,9,7,8,8,7
conv:17801,sad,"I found my cat the other day. She had been missing for 3 days. I found her on the side of the road, guts in the gutter","speaker: My cat went missing 3 days ago. I found her.
listener: That must have been a little bit of a roller coaster. That's kind of why I'm not wild about cats, is because they're so independent, and the outside cats can just go hang out somewhere for days and not have a care in the world about you. But I guess that suits some people.
speaker: I found her on the side of the street with her guts hanging in the gutter. I was so upset and sad",Oh man.. so that was REALLY a roller coaster then. I'm so sorry.. I hope you're not overwhelming yourself with guilt about it. It sounds like something you could not have any control over.,That must have been really tough to find her like that.,10,9,9,7,7
conv:19417,disgusted,I had to go to the hospital. There was a man there who came with severe burns. It was repulsive.,"speaker: I was in a hospital and a guy game in with some really bad burns.
listener: oh my gosh. what happened to him?
speaker: No idea, but I had never seen something like that in person. It looked painful.",i bet is was. are you ok?,"Oh, that must have been really tough to witness.",9,9,9,8,8
conv:1368,angry,"When I was younger, this little kid was going around tripped other kids and being a jerk in general. He was picking on kids smaller than him, which really annoyed me. So, I tripped him with a hoola hoop.","speaker: When I was a kid, I went to this group with other kids my age, it was in a big gym. There were kids of different ages, and one of the kids (8 years old or so) was picking on the littler kids. So, when he had his back turned, I looped him with a hoola hoop and tripped him so he fell flat on his face.
listener: He deserved that, I think.
speaker: Yeah, I was pretty amazed in the moment, he was flat as a board in mid air before he landed flat on his face. I had to watch for a moment in awe, before I realized he was getting up and I was about to get smacked. So, I ran towards where the parents were seated, stopped when I turned the corner, and walked calmly over to my mom, taking a seat on her lap. I looked innocent as could be as the mean kid came around the corner, and I forced myself to sit still so that when he smacked me in the face with the hoola hoop, I looked like a helpless victim.","Wow, interesting.",That must have been quite a moment! How did you feel after?,10,9,7,8,8
conv:17775,annoyed,"This morning, my dog knocked down a box of cereal and it all dumped unto the floor. As I tried to clean it up, she was trying to eat it, so she almost knocked me down. I was not very happy with her.","speaker: This morning, my dog knocked down a while box of cereal and it spilled everywhere.
listener: Oh wow, that sounds like it was a big mess.
speaker: Yes, and to make it worse, when I tried to clean it, she tried to eat, so she almost knocked me over too. I was not happy.","I hope she didn't eat too much of it, it might make her sick.","Oh wow, that sounds frustrating! I can see why you were upset.",9,9,9,8,9
conv:21716,devastated,My dog I had for five years just passed away. He was hit by a car last night.,"speaker: My dog I had for five years just passed away. He was hit by a car last night.
listener: oh I am so sorry. That must be fresh on your heart, may he rest in peace.
speaker: It is just so sad to have my loyal companion taken away like that.",I can only imagine. I am so sorry. What was his name?,I can only imagine how hard this must be for you. Losing a beloved pet is so heartbreaking.,9,7,8,7,7
conv:8830,nostalgic,I went to the beach last week. felt like one of those times i went there with my family and had fun,"speaker: I went to the beach last week
listener: Oh nice. did you have a good time?
speaker: yeah. so much memories of me and family spending time in beach came to me","Aww, that is really sweet to hear","Oh, those memories must bring back so many happy moments! Tell me more.",9,9,7,6,7
conv:7587,furious,I get really upset when ever someone cuts me of in traffic. I just dont see why people think it's ok to do that.,"speaker: I got so annoyed the other day. Got cut off in traffic.
listener: It should be harder to get a license than it is.
speaker: I agree! Do people just not care about risking their own lives never mind anyone else?",It's as if some people think they are the only one's on the road.,It's frustrating when others don't follow traffic rules.,10,9,9,7,9
conv:8509,trusting,"My husband travels extensively for work, so I have to have faith that he will be loyal and faithful to me when he is on business trips.","speaker: My husband has to travel a lot for work. It can be hard on a marriage, but after almost 23 years of marriage, I have faith he is loyal and faithful when he does.
listener: What does your husband do for work?
speaker: He is an iron worker, so he has to go state to state at times to build very large buildings.","My uncle use to be an iron worker, so I know exactly what you are talking about.",It sounds like you've been incredibly patient and understanding. How does that make you feel?,10,8,7,7,8
conv:7076,proud,Today my daughter went down the big ramp at the skate park. It was so cool to see her zoom down it. It made my day!,"speaker: I took my daughter out to the skate park today.
listener: how did that go
speaker: Awesome! She went down the big ramp today for the first time. It was so cool.",oh thats awesome.. congrats,That sounds amazing! Tell me more about it.,9,8,8,7,9
conv:5588,angry,"I had a guest over that used my restroom, and they obviously have some sort of digestive issue! They didn't event tell me about it!","speaker: I had a guest over that used my restroom, and they obviously have some sort of digestive issue! They didn't event tell me about it!
listener: That is terrible.
speaker: Yes it is. Do you think I should confront them?",Maybe? Is it that big of a deal to you?,That must have been really uncomfortable for you.,10,7,8,7,8
conv:14055,devastated,Last year we lost our home of 20 years to a house fire. We lost all of our belongings but thankfully nobody was hurt.,"speaker: Last year we lost our home of 20 years to a house fire.
listener: Oh no!  I can't even imagine that - was everyone ok?
speaker: Yes, thankfully everybody was safe. Nobody was even home when it happened.",I'm so glad that everyone was ok.  But I know that was devastating - did you rebuild?,"Oh, that must have been really tough. Can you tell me more about it?",9,7,9,8,7
conv:6714,surprised,My Mother called me up and said she was in town today.  She took me out to eat and brought me a book as a gift.,"speaker: I recieved a call from my mother today.  She said she was in town.
listener: Do you have plans to get together?
speaker: Yes she took me out to a restaurant and presented me with a book I had been wanting.",How nice of her. You must have been so happy to see her.,That sounds like a wonderful surprise! Did you enjoy the meal?,10,8,8,8,7
conv:20906,nostalgic,"Back to school time always brings back so many memories of when my kids were going to school. I would cry every year on the first day of school, especially if it was a milestone year.","speaker: Every year when the kids go back to school, it brings back so many memories of when my kids were going to school.
listener: I know what you mean.  I love to see all the pictures, and think back to how little mine used to be.
speaker: I would cry the first day of school every year, especially the milestone years. Now my grandchildren are starting school. Time flies by too quickly",They do seem to be grown before you know it.  Make you wonder how if goes so fast!,It's bittersweet to see them grow up so fast.,8,7,9,6,7
conv:20397,embarrassed,I was in a rush this morning and didn't realize I had put on two different colored sox. It was really embarrassing and I hope no one noticed.,"speaker: I was in a rush this morning and didn't realize I had put on two different colored sox.
listener: I hate it when that happens. I hope your pants covered them at least.
speaker: One was pink the other was green. I hope no one noticed.",That would be embarrassing!,"Oh, that must have been so embarrassing! How did you handle it?",10,8,8,7,9
conv:14962,content,"I was satisfied last week when I made some money selling stuff I didnt need. It made room in my house and got me some extra cash, win win.","speaker: I sold some stuff I didnt need last week.
listener: did yo make some good money?
speaker: Yea, enought to have great weekened anyway.",I cold use some money like that,That's great! Selling stuff can really help clear space and earn extra cash.,9,8,9,8,9
conv:2579,proud,I gratuated from college with the highest score in the past 20 years,"speaker: I just got back from my graduation! can you imagine after 5 years i graduated with the highest score of my college in the past 20 years!
listener: Wow that is a long time ago.
speaker: Yes! i studied so hard, can you imagine how i feel? i cannot believe it!","Yes, where did you go to college?","Wow, that's incredible! Can you believe it?",10,7,8,6,8
conv:20438,impressed,When I got out of the gym today,"speaker: I was so satisfied with myself when I left the gym today
listener: Did you have a good workout?
speaker: Indeed, it was quite thrilling, did a little chest workout, got a nice pump",Nice!  I really need to get back to the gym.,That sounds like a great workout! How did you feel after?,9,9,7,6,8
conv:16912,ashamed,"When I was a teen, I worked as a server at a restaurant. My family, including my grandmother came to sit in my section, and the host informed them I was picking up my grandmother from the airport. I was mortified.","speaker: Playing hookey can be really fun. But sometimes it backfires...
listener: Ohh what happened?
speaker: When I was a teenager, I called in to the restaurant and told them I had to pick up my grandmother from an aiport hours away. Wouldn't you know it my family came in (including my grandma) and asked to be sat in my section!",Sometimes things like these happens. Don't worry. But playing hookey is a fun though,"Oh wow, that must have been embarrassing!",8,7,7,7,7
conv:1409,embarrassed,when I was 12 we had to shower after gym. Well I didn't want anyone to see me naked but had to go through with it,"speaker: Public school really sucks sometimes. Making boys shower all together. I didn't want to but had to or else fail PE
listener: I hate public schools ooo
speaker: yes. Well it was a long time ago but I haven't forgotten",But it's really cool atimes,I can understand why you feel that way. It must have been tough.,10,8,9,8,9
conv:8280,proud,So proud of my son! He finally learned how to use a spoon and a fork,"speaker: My son is 16 months and he finally learned how to use a spoon and a fork. I've been trying to teach him for a couple of months!
listener: Amazing! I wish I could see a pic of it!
speaker: He is still very messy but he really enjoys eating like a big boy","Oh he will be, but enjoy it, only babies once",That's wonderful progress! How proud are you of his efforts?,9,7,7,8,8
conv:21263,hopeful,"My ex recently said that he was wanting to get back together. I'm not sure how to feel about it, we've been getting along great since we broke up.","speaker: My ex recently said that he was wanting to get back together. I'm not sure how to feel about it, we've been getting along great since we broke up.
listener: Why did yall break up?
speaker: The straw that broke the camels back is that he broke a promise that he would leave his job if they were over working him too much. He decided he didn't want to leave after all and wants to keep working 70+ hour weeks every week.",That doesnt leave much time for yalls relationship,It's tough to deal with broken promises like that. How are you feeling?,10,9,7,6,7
conv:530,sentimental,"Every time I look through older photos of my children, I'm taken right back to the time they were that size!","speaker: Every time I look through older photos of my children, I'm taken right back to the time they were that size, and what we were doing! It's a bittersweet feeling, for sure.
listener: Oh, it sure is, I feel the same way. They grow up so fast!
speaker: Are your kids adults now?",One of them is! I have an 18 year old and a 12 year old.,"Oh, those memories are precious! How are they doing now?",9,9,7,7,7
conv:20665,jealous,I recently let a girl slip through my fingers. She is now with somebody that I do not like.,"speaker: I let a romantic interest slip through my fingers. She's now with somebody that I despise
listener: Wow, that's so sad. Hopefully a new love will come to you!
speaker: I think so. I have plenty of time and life goes","Sure, it's never too late. And you never know what's gonna happen soon.",It's tough to see someone with someone you don't like. How are you feeling about it?,8,8,7,8,9
conv:1801,guilty,I stole a shirt I liked from my friend.,"speaker: There was this one time I stole a shirt from my friend, and I feel pretty guilty about it.
listener: why'd you steal it
speaker: Because I really liked it, and didn't think he'd care.",oh yea what kind of shirt was it,It's okay to feel guilty about it.,8,8,9,8,7
conv:3676,confident,"I have started searching for a new job, and I'm feeling pretty good about it.","speaker: I'm looking for a new job, and I'm feeling pretty good about my options.
listener: what are your options?
speaker: There's a lot of openings for tech jobs lately, especially technical support.",oh yeah thats always going to be up and coming for sure,That's great! You're exploring new opportunities.,8,9,7,8,8
conv:24719,confident,"I have a presentation for work on monday, about our hiring policys and how to retain more people. I know I have this! I have been preparing all weekend.","speaker: I have a presentation for work on Monday, I'm a little nervous.
listener: Oh, thats not unusual. You must try to relax. Is it an important presentation?
speaker: Kind of, but I have prepared a lot so I'm sure it'll go good! I work in the human resource department for a big company and we are trying to find new ways to retain good employes.","I see, I hope it goes well for you. Remember to breathe!",It's great you've prepared so much! You've got this!,8,9,8,7,8
conv:17092,angry,"One day my debit card suddenly stopped working.The fraud prevention said it was the bank, and the bank said it was fraud prevention. After trying to use it again, I went back to the band and was informed they would need to send me a new card.","speaker: I really should have switched banks a long time ago. Nobody over there knows their head from their butt!
listener: I know what you mean. Once I had a bank where the teller's literally had butts for heads. It was so distracting trying to talk to them.
speaker: That sounds truly bizarre! I guess I am still angry because the other day they froze my card, and due to a teller's mistake actually had to take my current card and mail me a new one!",Well it was an upgrade from the bank I had where the tellers were actually robots. I can't believe the cost-cutting measures in place today!,It must have been so frustrating to deal with those mistakes. Have you considered speaking to a manager?,9,8,8,6,8
conv:15830,prepared,"When I lived in California recently the farmer on whose land I lived encouraged me to get organized and have valuables etc. together in case a big earthquake hit. He also stockpiled batteries, water etc.","speaker: When I lived in California my farmer friend and landlord had me get organized and have all my valuables together in case of a big earthquake. He stockpiled such things as batteries and water.
listener: I can understand that as I live in Florida and we prepare for hurricanes each year with a plan and emergency rations and supplies.
speaker: It feels good to get everything together, doesn't it? You feel as if you're ready for anything!","Yes, you are correct. You can always ""hope"" for the best, but also ""plan"" for the worst. Being prepared is a comfortable feeling.",That sounds like a wise preparation! Have you ever experienced an earthquake before?,10,9,7,8,7
conv:765,confident,"I had an interview for my dream job. I felt sure I would get it, but I didn't in the end.","speaker: THat's too bad. What do you think went wrong?
listener: I am not sure, it was pretty random
speaker: Did they give you any feedback?
listener: No, nothing at all
speaker: That is a shame, you need to learn from your mistakes.",I know,It's okay to feel disappointed. What do you think you can learn from this?,8,7,8,6,9
conv:14745,joyful,I like that a game I love is coming out Monday. I am really excited about this.,"speaker: My favorite game has an expansion on Monday, I can't wait.
listener: Nice! What game?
speaker: World of Warcraft, It's been my favorite for years.","Oh cool, I've heard of it but never played, I'm not too good with games.",That sounds amazing! What's new in the expansion?,10,8,9,8,7
conv:5723,nostalgic,I recently spent a long weekend with some old buddies from college. We just drank and goofed off all weekend.,"speaker: I recently had a long weekend with some old friends. It was fantastic.
listener: It must have been fun to catch up with them.
speaker: it was. We've spent a lot of time together and apart now, so it was good to catchup.",Well I hope you guys continue to stay in touch.,It sounds like you really enjoyed reconnecting with old friends!,10,9,9,7,9
conv:21993,faithful,I'm glad I stuck my job out as long as I did - I finally got offered a promotion today.,"speaker: I'm glad I stuck my job out as long as I did - I finally got offered a promotion today.
listener: Congrats! is it a good promotion?
speaker: It is!  I'll actually be the manager of the entire office, and not just the one section I was in!",Wow that is super exciting. Not many people get that opportunity. You must have worked hard,That's amazing! Congratulations on the promotion!,9,7,7,8,7
conv:1822,ashamed,When my girlfriend saw me cheating,"speaker: My girlfriend saw me kissing another girl, who was kissing ME at the bar.. I was very drunk..
listener: Oh wow. Did she break up with you?
speaker: No.. I realized the mistake I made and took action so it never would happen again.",Don't sweat it man. There is plenty of fish in the sea anyways.,"Oh, that must have been really tough. How are you feeling now?",8,7,7,6,7
conv:16370,terrified,Spiders make me scared to my bones i cannot see them anywhere does not matter if it is in a picture,"speaker: i cant get near spiders, even if i see them in pictures they freak me out
listener: just cause of the way they look or you had an incident involving one?
speaker: not really i was just born afraid of them hahah",yea im right there with you on that one along with snakes heh,It's okay to feel scared. Have you tried any techniques to manage it?,9,9,7,6,9
conv:22042,impressed,My son's soccer coach said nice things about his play last year and told me he would do what he could to get him on his team this year as well.,"speaker: My son's soccer coach said nice things about his play last year and told me he would do what he could to get him on his team this year as well.
listener: That sounds awesome, I'm glad he did well.
speaker: I am, too!  I'm glad he's doing something he loves.  At this point, I'm just waiting on the text to see which team he made it onto.",I hope he gets the team he wants.,That's great! I'm so happy for you and your son.,9,7,7,6,8
conv:22062,impressed,My 6 year old daughter couldn't understand how to use a gaming controller. after a few days she had figured it out on her own.,"speaker: My 6 year old tried to play a video game but couldn't understand how the controller worked. A few days later she was playing no problem!
listener: Kids pick those things up quickly.  And it'll help with her hand-eye coordination, reading - all sorts of things!
speaker: Yea, i was pretty proud of her, especially since things are more complicated now than when i was a kid.","Yeah.  Back when the only buttons on a controller were Start, Select, A and B!",That's amazing progress! How proud you must feel!,8,8,7,7,9
conv:4011,furious,After a stressful day at work I found my car's tires had been slashed! I couldn't help but scream.,"speaker: I'm surprised the police are going to let they get away with it.
listener: Did you have an enemy or someone as a suspect?
speaker: I think the mailman might be mad at me because I keep ordering heavy items.",Weird reaction. I feel like he should just do his job and not key your car.,It's frustrating to feel like you can't trust anyone.,8,7,8,8,7
conv:9898,caring,My dad has dementia.  I try my hardest to be as caring with him as I can b/c I know he doesn't mean to be harsh or hard to deal with at times,"speaker: My dad has early onset dementia
listener: Im sorry to hear that, its very hard to cope with
speaker: Yes, I try my hardest to be caring and patient with him b/c I know he doesn't mean to be harsh or hard to deal with at times.","It is, i feel for you! i had a relative that progressively got worse and its extremely difficult","It sounds really tough, but you're doing great.",9,7,7,7,9
conv:10277,apprehensive,"I'm anxious, if excited, about an upcoming move. We've lived overseas before, but *this* is a very different in terms of both location and climate.","speaker: I'm anxious (if excited!) about an upcoming move -- we've lived overseas before, but this is such a different state and climate, I'm not sure what to expect!
listener: It sounds like a great chance to start over fresh! Where are you moving to?
speaker: Alaska! We've got some transition time, but I've been doing deep research on Anchorage -- and the more I see, the more I like!",Oh wow! How exciting! I can't wait to come visit you there so you can show me the sights!,It's great to explore new places! What excites you most about Anchorage?,10,7,7,8,9
conv:13907,content,It's been a peaceful night! I have a nice cold drink and watching my favouite show. Life is good.,"speaker: It's been a great night! I'm just relaxing with a cold drink and my favourite show!
listener: That does sound like a great night! I think I'm overdue for one of those myself!
speaker: Yes defenitly, It dosen't get better then this! My daughter has been fast asleep since 8pm.",That's great. It's nice when we get some peaceful time for ourselves.,That sounds like a perfect night! Want to share more?,8,7,7,8,7
conv:21965,confident,"I recently applied for a new job, beforehand i bought a new outfit and got a haircut to make me feel better about myself and my chances.","speaker: I was nervous about an upcoming job interview recently, I bought a new outfit and got a haircut to make myself feel better.
listener: Do you feel any less nervous?  Job interviews are always nerve-wracking
speaker: Yea, it made me feel better about myself and my chances, or maybe i just like spending money","Either way, as long as you feel a little bit better it was worth it.  I'm sure you'll do great!",It's great you took care of yourself before the interview. How did it go?,10,7,8,7,7
conv:21549,confident,One time I had to take a final for a class. I studied for hours for it and felt very prepared,"speaker: I have a final exam that I've been studying for for days.
listener: How do you think it will go? Are you confident?
speaker: I think I will do really well. I feel prepared for it.",What subject is it?,It sounds like you put in a lot of effort. How are you feeling about the exam?,8,7,7,6,9
conv:19429,impressed,I saw a guy deadlift 700lbs at the gym the other day. I was in awe.,"speaker: I saw a guy deadlift 700lbs at the gym the other day. I was in awe.
listener: Oh my god, that is a LOT of weight!
speaker: Yeah it is, it seemed like he had every plate in the gym on the bar. I've never seen someone lift that much in person before.","That's really cool, I honestly can't even imagine someone lifting that much!",That's incredible! Tell me more about it.,8,9,9,8,7
conv:11601,apprehensive,We were at Six Flags. My kids wanted me to go on one of the roller coasters. I was very leery of getting on one because I haven't ridden one in years. I finally got on and had so much fun!,"speaker: My kids and I went to Six Flags and they wanted me to ride the roller coaster but I had so many reservations about getting on it.
listener: Were you afraid of heights and high speeds?
speaker: The high speeds. It had been so long since i had been on one. I finally did get on and we had a blast!",I am glad you did. Rollercoasters are thrilling and should not be missed out on!,It's great that you tried it and had fun! Want to share more about the ride?,10,9,8,7,9
conv:15424,hopeful,"My transmission in my car went out the other day, maybe it won't be too expensive to repair.","speaker: My transmission in my car went out the other day, maybe it won't be too expensive to repair.
listener: That's never fun!  Large unexpected expenses are the worst
speaker: Yes they are. I had just put a down payment on a house too, so my money is tied up.","Oh no! At least you have something to look forward to, the new house!",That sounds tough. I'm sorry to hear about the unexpected costs.,10,8,9,8,9
conv:9460,proud,I'm so proud of my wife,"speaker: I'm so proud of my wife
listener: i bet she's a wonderful woman
speaker: She really is",hold on to her,It sounds like you have a wonderful wife!,8,9,9,7,8
conv:16354,grateful,My wife and I had to move far away from home recently for her grad school.  My parents were kind enough to cosign on a loan for a condo.,"speaker: When my wife and I had to move for her to go to school, we had a lot of trouble finding a place to live until my parents were nice enough to cosign on a loan.
listener: You must be so thankful!
speaker: We are.  They've helped a lot during my life, but this might have been the biggest one.",They are really wonderful. Do you have plans to show how thankful you are?,It's amazing how much they've supported you both!,8,7,9,7,8
conv:20434,terrified,I was challenged to a dare by my best friend. I had to spend the night in a cometary with no flashlights or tents just a rolled up sleeping bag.,"speaker: I was challenged to a dare by my best friend!
listener: Did you have the choice between truth and dare?
speaker: No, the challenge was I had to spend the night in a cemetery. No flashlight no tents just a rolled up sleeping bag.","Dang, street cred off the chains right there",That sounds like quite an adventure! Want to tell me more?,10,9,9,8,9
conv:4981,sentimental,My son is now in college and of legal age for any situation. I feel very nostalgic when I look at him at times.,"speaker: As I look at my 21 year old son, I often reflect on when he was smaller. Time really flies!
listener: Time sure does fly and change is inevitable
speaker: Yes, that's true. I still can imagine when he was waking up Christmas morning to see what Santa brought when he was 5.",Thinking about past events can be very nostalgic,It's amazing how quickly they grow up. How are you handling this transition?,10,8,8,6,7
conv:19204,confident,"I have to go to see my orthopedic surgeon next month. It's a bit of a drive - about 1 1/2 hours, but I've done it before and know I'll manage ok.","speaker: I have quite a long drive ahead of me next month. It's about 1/12 hours, but I've don it before so I'll be fine.
listener: I don't know how you do it. I can't stand long drives.
speaker: I put music on and open the window. Otherwise I'll disappear into my own little world, and that's not a good thing to do when you're driving!",Definitely not! Music is a great idea though; I listen to music on all bus rides and car rides.,It sounds like long drives really challenge you. How do you usually handle them?,9,9,9,7,8
conv:21837,content,I was sitting here petting my cat on my lap,"speaker: I am sitting here chilling out with my cat on my lap.
listener: Thats great, perfect time to unwind and relax, and earn money!
speaker: Yes.  My cat is relaxing and always sleeping","Awesome, sometimes they can get annoying always running around and nagging you.",That sounds like a nice break. How’s your cat feeling?,9,8,8,7,9
conv:24756,anticipating,This week is the last week for this semester of my college courses. I can't stand having to wait to see the final grades!,"speaker: This week was the last one for this semester of my college courses
listener: That is awesome, what degree are you working towards?
speaker: Healthcare administration, only 6 months left! I get so antsy waiting to see the final grades, it drives me crazy","I can imagine, waiting sucks!",That's great progress! How are you feeling about the upcoming grades?,10,9,8,7,9
conv:21923,confident,I am going to play in a dominos tournament,"speaker: I am going to play dominos tonight
listener: That sounds like fun!  Is it with friends?
speaker: Well with some locals at the local brewpub","So cool, I hope it goes well",That sounds like a great way to spend the evening!,10,8,7,8,7
conv:19084,guilty,I ate like a whole cake last night! It was so good I couldn't stop eating it,"speaker: I ate an entire cake last night
listener: What did i tell you about doing that. It was a chocolate cake right?
speaker: It was! I just couldn't stop! It was so good that I just had to keep eating","Ok, at least it was the right kind of cake you liked. But still not a good thing.","Oh no, that sounds like a lot of cake! Did you enjoy it?",10,9,8,8,7
conv:21358,disappointed,I interviewed for a dream job of mine last week. I found out today that I didn't get it.,"speaker: So I interviewed for my dream job last week and I didn't get it.
listener: I'm sorry to hear that.  Hopefully something similar comes along sooner than later.
speaker: I really hope so. I was really wanting that job.",Just remember to keep your head up and don't give up!,It's okay to feel disappointed. Let's talk about how you're handling it.,9,9,7,8,8
conv:9770,angry,"I was very upset one day when my daughter came off of the bus and was crying. A older boy intentionally tripped her when she was getting off the bus, and she got hurt!","speaker: One day my daughter got off the bus and was crying. An older boy intentionally tripped her as she got off the bus and she got hurt. This made me very upset and mad!
listener: What was the boy kid's problem?
speaker: He just thought it would be funny! He was also several years older than her and a teenager. Too old to know better!",Maybe he has the crush on her?,It's understandable you're upset about what happened to your daughter.,10,9,8,6,7
conv:8400,sad,I miss my family,"speaker: i didn't see my parents since 2014! I miss them so much. it's so sad that i live in a different country
listener: When will you be able to visit?
speaker: actually in 2 weeks! I'm so excited about it. I'm going there with my son! They've never met him","Oh boy, that must be amazing for him",It's wonderful to see you're looking forward to it!,8,7,7,7,9
conv:5545,joyful,My grandpa is coming to visit!,"speaker: ""My grandpa is coming to visit!
listener: That sounds like you are excited for sure! When is he coming and what are yall going to do?
speaker: He is coming next week! We are going to play Bingo at the local American Legion every night!",Honestly that sounds pretty fun to me I havent been to bingo in years. I love listening to the older people arguing when someone wins.,That sounds like so much fun! Are you looking forward to it?,10,9,8,7,7
conv:22741,nostalgic,wake forest is starting classes now and I remember the excitement of studying abroad through them,"speaker: My university is posting live stream of students moving in and I was reminiscing about when I studied abroad in college
listener: Aww, that is nice. Where did you study abroad?
speaker: I studied in Venice Italy and travelled all over Europe","Wow, how exciting! I also traveled Europe and Italy many years ago. I loved it!! Wish I could just move there. :)","Aww, sounds like an amazing adventure! Where did you go next?",10,9,9,6,7
conv:9768,prepared,When I had to move for the first time I looked up all the moving tips in the world to figure out how to do it really well. It felt so great to be able to get everything moved and have not a single issue.,"speaker: I just had to move across country to a new job.
listener: Wow, that must've been hard to uproot your whole life. Are you happy about the move?
speaker: I am actually! I was so ready for it. I basically studied moving so that everything would be easy",That's awesome! I've been wanting to do the same actually. I hope you have a fabulous time in your new place and new job!,That sounds like a big accomplishment! Tell me more about your move.,10,9,8,7,8
conv:16102,nostalgic,I heard a lot of cool songs on a radio station I usually don't listen to. It really took me back to the 90s.,"speaker: I got to hear a lot of cool songs on a radio station I usually don't listen to.
listener: Nice! Which ones did you hear!
speaker: Mambo #5, Missy Elliot, and Ricky Martin. It really took me back",That one is a zinger! I remember listening to that when I took my grandma to prom!,That sounds like a blast! Tell me more about those songs.,8,9,9,6,9
conv:12379,ashamed,I ate way too much today! Was suppose to be on a diet. Ate a cupcake and pizza.,"speaker: I feel like a failure, Im suppose to be on a diet but ate too much today!
listener: You can always start tomorrow
speaker: Thanks, I keep telling myself to stick with it but its hard!","It can be hard, but you can do it",It's okay to slip sometimes. Tomorrow is a new chance.,9,9,8,7,9
conv:5393,confident,I know I will save the money I need,"speaker: I know I will save the money I need for the baby
listener: What is your plan to accomplish that?
speaker: Just to keep on working as much as I can everyday","Just don't over do, you have to enjoy being a parent, that's a key to happy kids.",It sounds like you're really committed to saving. How are you staying motivated?,10,8,7,6,8
conv:24523,trusting,I felt a weight off my shoulders when I just let things happen,"speaker: I'm trying to get over my need to control things, and I find if I just let things happen it feels like a weights been pulled off my shoulders
listener: I used to struggle with the same problem, it can be overwhelming
speaker: Right, but things always seem to turn out for the best anyway",I agree!!,It's great to feel lighter when you let things happen. How's that working out for you?,10,9,7,6,8
conv:776,confident,One time I was going to a court hearing against my former place of employment to repeal a decision made to cancel my unemployment. I knew I would win because I had so much evidence against them and their shoddy work practices.,"speaker: I went to a court hearing for unemployment with my former employer, and I felt great about it since I was so prepared with all of the documents and everything I needed to show the court I was in the right for quitting.
listener: Did it go your way?
speaker: Yes, I actually ended up winning it and they gave me 6 months of unemployment pay.",That is great - have you found another job yet?,That's amazing! You were so well-prepared.,8,9,9,6,7
conv:6257,guilty,I forgot to pick up a bag of chips for my son from the grocery store.,"speaker: I forgot to pick up a bag of chips for my son from the grocery store.
listener: Did you go back?
speaker: No, I didn't.  We live in a rural area and the grocery store is 20 minutes away.  Lucky for him, I forgot some other stuff for tomorrow's dinner [mom brain!] and I told him that we could ride together tomorrow back to the store.
listener: Maybe you should let him get a couple of things to make up for it.
speaker: Multiple bags of chips, to be sure!  *chuckle*",Or you can get a variety pack!,It's okay to feel a bit silly sometimes. Want to talk more about it?,10,8,9,7,8
conv:2440,proud,"My wife was able to get a job with Microsoft, and she didn't even need a 4-year degree!","speaker: My wife was able to get a job with Microsoft without going to a four-year college!
listener: That's pretty amazing. She must be skillful regardless.
speaker: She really is. It just shows that you don't need to have a four-year degree in order to be successful.","Yea, experience and skills matter a lot more.",That's incredible! Tell me more about her skills.,8,9,7,8,7
conv:21567,furious,One time I lent my car to a friend. He drove around drunk and totaled it.,"speaker: I stupidly lent my car to a friend.
listener: Uh oh. What happened?
speaker: He got drunk and took it for a joyride. It didn't end well.",That is horrible! I hope he was okay.,"Oh no, that must have been really scary. How are you handling it?",8,7,9,7,9
conv:11770,annoyed,"I'm annoyed today is my off day and I wanted to sleep in, yet here I am awake early.","speaker: Today is my off day and I wanted to sleep in, yet here I am awake early.
listener: I am the same.. woke up at 6 for no reason
speaker: It sucks. I guess my body doesn't want me to sleep in any more.",LOL i hate that,It's frustrating when your body doesn't cooperate. Want to talk about why?,10,9,9,7,8
conv:18798,trusting,I left my cell phone on the table at the starbucks. I was going to the bathroom and didn't worry about leaving it.,"speaker: I left my cell phone on the table at starbucks.
listener: Oh no! Was it still there when you went back?
speaker: Of course, I'm not worried no one would steal from me.",You never know these days. Luckily there are cameras everywhere.,"Oh, that's okay! People usually trust others.",10,8,9,8,9
conv:7588,afraid,My parents have not gotten over the loss of my sister. They need to get some help from a trained professional.,"speaker: You know my parents still have not gotten over the loss of my sister.
listener: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. May I ask how long ago it was that she passed?
speaker: She passed two days after Christmas. She was very sick during the whole month of December.",They probably still just need some time. My grandfather still isn't over the passing of my grandmother and that was over a year ago. I would just make sure to keep seeing and talking to your parents to make them feel as loved as you can.,"Oh, that must be really hard for them. How can I help?",8,8,8,8,8
conv:22730,guilty,I forgot that I had made plans with my mother over the weekend. We had been planning it for a few days I feel awful.,"speaker: I forgot about plans that I had made with my mother over the weekend.
listener: How could you? Oh dear now you would have to apologise
speaker: I called her right up and we rescheduled! I felt so bad though.",I am glad that you were able to reschedule,It's okay to feel bad about it.,10,8,9,8,8
conv:12279,guilty,As a mom I sometimes treat myself to something tasty when I make it out alone. I snuck an ice cream cone the other day.,"speaker: As a mom I sometimes sneak a sweet treat when I make it out alone.
listener: You do what you want, you earn it!
speaker: Still feel bad when I got an ice cream the other day",Why?,It's okay to treat yourself sometimes. How was the ice cream?,10,9,9,7,8
conv:9347,sentimental,I found a box in my closet that contained a lot of old photos.  I found pictures of my sister and I from when we were toddlers.  It brought back a lot of good memories.,"speaker: I found a box of old photos in my closet yesterday.
listener: awh memories, what were they of?
speaker: A lot of them where photos of my sister and I when we were toddlers.  It was a good trip down memory lane.","so cute, i love those memories i bet it was beautiful.","Those old photos really bring back the good times, don't they?",10,9,8,8,8
conv:17605,anxious,"When I interviewed for the job I have now, I didn't hear back from them with a solid response for a month.  I kept having to check with them to make sure I hadn't been forgotten.","speaker: When I interviewed for the job I have now, they didn't give me a solid answer for like a month after the interview.
listener: That's a long time to kind of hang in limbo. I am sorry you had to endure that for a month.
speaker: It worked out ok, but I had to keep bugging them to make sure they hadn't given up on me.","Well, at least that story had a happy ending. It could have went much worse.",It must have been tough to wait that long. How did you feel during that time?,8,9,9,7,8
conv:17711,grateful,My friend helped me to pack,"speaker: I'm about to go overseas and i was so overwhelmed with packing and getting ready and my friend came over and helped me to pack
listener: That's a good friend you got there.
speaker: she is wonderful! She helped me out so many times i don't know what i would do withiut her",Never take someone like that for granted. They are so rare.,It's great to have such a supportive friend!,8,9,7,7,9
conv:512,grateful,"I am continually value *health*. Too often, I see people either squandering it or not appreciating it until it's gone.","speaker: Too often, it's a health scare that makes us value health. It inspires me to try and do something to keep healthy every day.
listener: I understand. I am think the same thing. What is your health issue?
speaker: Happily, I don't have one! It's more seeing family and friends and the situations they're in. Not everything can be helped -- but there are some things we can all do to take care of ourselves, you know?","Yes, we should try to yourself heathy",It's great to see you're proactive about health! How can I help you stay motivated?,9,8,9,8,9
conv:12015,anxious,"i hate when people make me wait it really makes me anxious, i expect people to arrive at the time they said they would","speaker: When people make me wait, i get really anxious
listener: I can understand that. Do you try to find ways to fill your time while you're waiting?
speaker: Not really, i just look at the clock and wait for the time to come and when they dont arrive in time i start getting anxious","Yeah, waiting for someone can be a real pain.",I see how frustrating that must be. It's okay to feel anxious.,8,7,8,6,7
conv:18043,anxious,Tomorrow I start my new job teaching kids. I really hope it goes well!,"speaker: Tomorrow I start my new job teaching kids. I really hope it goes well!
listener: Oh wow, now that really is exciting, congratulations! Did you get the grade level and subject you wanted?
speaker: I am teaching at a small private school, so I will be teaching all the subjects for 3rd grade. I am pretty excited, just nervous.",Teaching little humans will be such a joy. I really hope you enjoy it!,That sounds like a big adventure! I'm excited for you.,9,7,9,7,9
conv:20375,confident,I had a job interview one time that was very important for me! I prepared as best I could and wen!t in to the interview feeling great about it.  I truly felt I would ace it,"speaker: I had a job interview that was very important to me once
listener: Did you go for the interview?
speaker: yes, I prepared as best I could and I really felt that I aced it!  Sure enough I ended up getting the jon","Thats lovely,congrats",That's amazing! Can you tell me more about it?,8,9,9,8,8
conv:20470,faithful,I'm glad to have the internet to teach me things I need,"speaker: The internet has been there through thick and thin for me
listener: The internet is a great thing. I don't know what we'd do without it.
speaker: True, it's a great resource to have",We had an issue with our internet for a couple of days and it was so inconvenient!,It's amazing how much the internet helps us learn and grow!,8,7,8,8,9
conv:19216,grateful,"There's a woman in town who has started delivering groceries to peoples' homes. As I'm disabled, I'm so thankful for her service. Things would be a lot more difficult without it.","speaker: I get my groceries delivered to my home and am so grateful for the service.
listener: Yeah it is really nice to have other people do your shopping
speaker: It helps me a lot as I'm disabled and it can be quite difficult. Anyway, I hate grocery shopping!","Shopping is no fun, waiting in lines is not fun.",It's great to have such helpful services available.,10,7,8,8,7
conv:18038,angry,"My neighbors dogs keep barking, and my daughter is asleep. I'm afraid they are going to wake her up!","speaker: My neighbors dog are barking so loud and my daughter is asleep!
listener: Ugh that's so annoying. What are they even barking at?
speaker: People walking on the bike trail behind our house. It's a daily thing, it gets so annoying!","Yeah, that would drive me crazy. Sounds like the neighbor needs to control their dogs.",I understand how frustrating that must be. Want to try some earplugs?,9,7,8,7,8
conv:8173,proud,"I got the A honor roll at my school, I was so happy and a bit smug about the whole thing.","speaker: I managed to get on the A honor roll at my school, I was a bit smug and happy for myself about the whole thing.
listener: There's nothing wrong with that
speaker: I'm just happy that I got it, it took a lot of hard work.",You should celebrate too. I would,That's amazing! You worked so hard for this.,8,9,8,8,8
conv:16372,surprised,A few years ago I came home to an unexpected party for my birthday.  My wife (who was my girlfriend then) had planned it all with my friends without me knowing.,"speaker: A few years ago, before we got married, my wife planned a party for me for my birthday completely without me knowing.
listener: That sounds like a pleasant surprise!
speaker: It really was!  I walked into my apartment to like 15 more people than I expected.",Thats so sweet of her and what a great memory to have!,That must have been such a special surprise!,9,7,7,8,9
conv:14736,nostalgic,I get sentimental during the holidays. I think back to the ones i had as a kid.,"speaker: I love the holidays, that make think back to being a kid.
listener: Ah same here. If only we had more holidays in a year!
speaker: Yea, that would really be great. Or maybe we'd get bored.","I guess we'll never though unless something monumental happens, and we get another holiday.",It brings back so many memories! Do you want to share more?,10,8,7,8,7
conv:12383,annoyed,"My boss has been a pain lately, he dosen't understand how long it takes to get certain tasks done. I am at my whitts end, thinking about quitting.","speaker: I'm thinking about quitting my day job!
listener: Why is that?
speaker: My boss has been unreasonable and a pain. He dosen't understand how much time I put into the company!","I get that, best of luck friend!",It sounds really frustrating. Have you talked to your boss about your concerns?,10,8,9,7,7
conv:10369,embarrassed,i hate farting in public it is the worst thing that can happen to you in public,"speaker: i hate when i fart in public it is so embarrasing
listener: You're unable to hold them in?
speaker: i can hold them but some of them are just accidental and it is the worst, depends on what i eat haha","I'm sorry, that must be pretty rough on you!",It really can be embarrassing. Have you tried eating differently?,8,9,9,8,9
conv:16327,sad,I read in the news a family had a house fire and lost all of their animals. It makes me upset to think about how they died.,"speaker: I read in the news about a family who lost all six of their animals in a house fire :(
listener: thats so sad oh no! thats terrible. :(
speaker: I know, it made me upset! My two dogs are my babies couldn't imagine loosing them.",They are honestly just like children so its really sad.,I'm so sorry to hear that. That must be really hard to imagine.,10,9,9,7,9
conv:11814,hopeful,"After dropping out of college 6 years ago, I decided to go back this year","speaker: After dropping out of college 6 years ago, I decided to go back this year.
listener: That is a great move!  I did the same thing.
speaker: I have high hopes for myself, as I have all A's so far. I hope I can keep up the momentum!","Good job, keep up the good work!",That's amazing! Tell me more about your journey.,8,8,9,7,7
conv:13306,proud,"A very dear friend of mine, against a mountain of challenges, got his dream job recently and is doing really well. I have so much respect for how tenacious he has been in getting information together and contacting the necessary people.","speaker: One of my very dear friends got his dream job recently. He was so diligent in finding information and contacts. I so respect what he's achieved.
listener: that's cool. I wish I had my dream job
speaker: Well, it takes perseverance and a bit of luck, but you can do it!
listener: My dream job is being born rich. Its too late for that
speaker: Lol, you and me both. You could always marry a Kardashian!",ick.,That's amazing! Tell me more about his journey.,10,8,9,8,8
conv:12939,impressed,"I went to school with a girl who was very timid. She sat in the back of class and never talked to anyone. She invited everyone to see her band, and she turned out to be a guitar prodigy!","speaker: An extremely timid girl in my physics class invited the class to see her band play at a bar downtown.
listener: Wow - hidden depths. Are you going?
speaker: I actually went last Friday night. Turns out she is an incredible guitarist - a real shredder!",Amazing. Just shows that you can't judge a book by it's cover,"Wow, that's amazing! Tell me more about her performance.",10,8,8,6,9
conv:2557,surprised,I got home and all of my friends were waiting for me to have a birthday party i did not know about!,"speaker: So i just got home and all of my friends were there for a birthday party i have no clue! can you imagine my reaction?
listener: Yeah, of course I can! That sounds heartless. Maybe that shows you who your friends truly are, and you should maybe look elsewhere... Could be a wake-up call.
speaker: Well the party was for me, hahaha they really got me on that one!","Oh, I misunderstood! I thought you meant you weren't invited to one that you later found out about. Hah! Then I guess the wake-up call is you have really good friends! So, you like surprise parties then? I never did.","Wow, that's amazing! How did you feel when you found out?",9,8,8,8,8