conversation_id,label,situation,conversation,gold_response,gen_response,fluency,identification,empathy,suggestion,overall
conv:17849,furious,"Last Christmas Eve, after a family event, I walked into my ten year old daughter's room and found her crying. When I asked her what was wrong, she said that while at the family event, she overheard someone calling her daddy fat, and making fun of him and it had hurt her feelings. The mama bear side of me came out. I was not very happy at all.","speaker: Last Christmas Eve, after a family event, I found my ten year old daughter crying in her room. At the event she had overheard someone calling her daddy fat and making fun of him, and it had hurt her feelings.
listener: Aw that's terrible, at least you were able to comfort her?
speaker: Yes, I was able to make her feel better, and her daddy made her laugh. But my mama bear side came out, and I was ready to confront some people.",I'm sure you were! Those people deserved some confrontation for sure.,I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter was hurt by those hurtful words. It's understandable that you'd feel protective of her.,9,7,8,6,8
conv:19641,prepared,I was ready for the first time I got into a car crash. I had everything I needed perfectly read,"speaker: I was very ready for my first car crash
listener: Why?
speaker: I had all the paperwork set and ready, I had a blanket cause it was in the winter.",What happened after your car crashed?,"Wow, it's impressive that you were prepared for your first car crash. It's important to be ready for unexpected situations, but it's also crucial to remember that each incident can be unique.",8,8,8,6,7
conv:19931,annoyed,One time my brother was playing music really loud while I was trying to study. It made it hard for me to focus,"speaker: I was trying to study for a test one night and my brother was listening to loud music
listener: Did you ask him to turn it down?  Or did you just go flip the circuit breaker to the house?
speaker: I would have totally flipped the circuit breaker if I knew how, but I just asked him to turn it down","Did he do it?  Cause if not, I might have needed to give him a high five, on the head, with a chair.",I'm sorry to hear that you had trouble focusing while studying due to your brother's loud music. It's understandable that you felt frustrated.,8,7,8,7,8
conv:22147,anxious,I have a big date coming up and I can't get these butterfly feelings to go away.,"speaker: I have a big date coming up and I can't get these butterfly feelings to go away.
listener: That is normal that just means that the other person is special
speaker: Yeah, I really think she might be the one. I hope I don't screw it up.",Well i will keep my finger crossed for you!,"It's understandable that you're feeling this way, as it's natural to have butterflies before a big date. You seem hopeful about this person, and that's exciting!",9,7,9,6,9
conv:17092,angry,"One day my debit card suddenly stopped working.The fraud prevention said it was the bank, and the bank said it was fraud prevention. After trying to use it again, I went back to the band and was informed they would need to send me a new card.","speaker: I really should have switched banks a long time ago. Nobody over there knows their head from their butt!
listener: I know what you mean. Once I had a bank where the teller's literally had butts for heads. It was so distracting trying to talk to them.
speaker: That sounds truly bizarre! I guess I am still angry because the other day they froze my card, and due to a teller's mistake actually had to take my current card and mail me a new one!",Well it was an upgrade from the bank I had where the tellers were actually robots. I can't believe the cost-cutting measures in place today!,"Wow, that sounds frustrating! I'm sorry to hear about the trouble with your bank. It's understandable to feel upset when things don't go as planned.",8,7,8,7,9
conv:19415,furious,I went shopping at the mall the other day. I was really tired and sat down for a few minutes. I placed the bags beside me and looked away for a second and the next thing I knew the bags were gone. I am still so mad,"speaker: I was at the mall yesterday. I sat down for a few minutes and when I looked away someone stole my shopping bags.
listener: Did you catch the person after?
speaker: No. I didn't notice right away. How could someone do that. Im so so mad!","That is unreal, what did you have in the bags?",I'm really sorry to hear that your shopping bags were stolen. It's understandable to feel upset about it.,8,7,7,7,9
conv:20536,apprehensive,"MY roommate got a new cat last week, and we finally let them meet today. I was so nervous and worried about it.","speaker: MY roommate got a new cat last week, and we finally let them meet today. I was so nervous and worried about it.
listener: how did it go?
speaker: It went okay. My cat bopped him a little and growled a lot but no real swipes. So better than expected I guess.",That's good some things just take time,That's great to hear! It seems like your cat and the newcomer got along better than you anticipated. Let's keep observing their interactions to see how they continue to get along.,8,8,8,6,9
conv:23387,faithful,One of my co-worker came and asked me a lot of really weird questions about my supervisor. It seemed suspicious so I pretty much told her I didn't know any of the answers to her questions. I don't think she like my supervisor.,"speaker: One of my co-worker came and asked me a lot of really weird questions about my supervisor. It seemed suspicious so I pretty much told her I didn't know any of the answers to her questions. I don't think she likes my supervisor.
listener: oh that's just a recipe for disaster 100% of the time.
speaker: Yeah I figured it was, so I just played dumb and let my supervisor know. My supervisor has always been good to me.",mine has too. i think you did the right thing by not getting involved.,It sounds like you're concerned about your co-worker's behavior and its potential impact on your work environment. It's understandable to feel uneasy when someone seems suspicious and asks questions about a supervisor.,9,8,8,6,7
conv:19022,proud,I am super proud of my parents for graduating college,"speaker: I am super proud of my parents for graduating college
listener: That's great that they accomplished that and even better that you recognize their achievements.
speaker: Yeah, they are truly an inspiration that anyone can go to college no matter the age",OK I didn't realize that they may have gone after you were born as opposed to before.,"I completely agree! Your parents are truly inspiring, and it's great to see that age doesn't have to be a barrier to achieving one's goals.",8,8,8,7,9
conv:20340,content,I have an amazing husband who is always there for me no matter what.  He makes me feel so loved and I can't imagine life without him.,"speaker: I have an amazing husband who is always there for me no matter what
listener: That sounds amazing! How'd you guys meet?
speaker: He was my sisters, husbands roomate in college and he came down for their wedding and we met there.  I can't imagine my life without him","Oh wow, that's awesome. Is your sister as happy with her husband as you are with yours?",I can understand why you feel that way. It's important to cherish the people who make a difference in our lives.,9,8,8,6,8
conv:20276,embarrassed,I was walking down the sidewalk of a busy street and caught my foot on a root and went face first into a big flower bed.,"speaker: I was in a big party city and the street was crowded with people. As I was walking my foot got tangled up on something and I went face first into a huge flower bed.
listener: Ouch! That must have hurt.
speaker: It hurt my pride more than it hurt my face.
listener: Don't worry, people won't remember within a few months.
speaker: That is true. Plus it was a big party area so Im sure a lot of them drunk anyway.",That's what I was thinking.,"Wow, that sounds like a quite embarrassing moment. I'm sorry it hurt your pride, but remember, it's okay to stumble sometimes. People may forget, but the memory of your courage to keep going will stay with you.",9,8,8,8,7
conv:24421,devastated,"My father almost died last year. The whole experience was very, very tough","speaker: My father almost passed away last year. It was very tough on everyone
listener: That is awful, I am sorry to hear that.  Is he doing better now?
speaker: Yes, he has made a full recovery! It's been a journey",I'm so glad he is better.  Is the whole family doing alright?  I know that can be really hard on people.,That's wonderful news! I'm so happy to hear that he's made a full recovery.,10,8,7,7,8
conv:17630,lonely,My wife has been out of the country for 2 months for school.  It's been a little tough being alone at home ever night.,"speaker: My wife has been out of the country for the last 2 months for school.
listener: Aw, I bet you miss her a lot.
speaker: I do.  She's getting back soon, but it's been tough being along with the dogs every night.","Well, at least the dogs still have you for company. I'm sure you'll be happy when she gets back though.",I can understand how much you've missed her and how hard it's been with the dogs. It's great that she's coming back soon.,8,8,7,7,7
conv:22156,guilty,"There was one piece of pie left in the fridge. Instead of sharing it, I ate it. I kind of feel bad.","speaker: There was one piece of pie left in the fridge. Instead of sharing it, I ate it. I kind of feel bad.
listener: oopsy. I hope it was worth it.
speaker: It might not be when my wife returns and sees it gone. I look super guilty right now.",LOL! Can  you run out and get another pie before she gets home?,"You might be feeling guilty, but remember, appearances can be deceiving. You are more than just your feelings.",8,8,7,7,7
conv:23451,faithful,"My husband is on the road a lot, it often gets lonley. I have to remember he does it for our family and try to enjoy the alone time.","speaker: My husband is on the road a lot, I hardley ever see him.
listener: I'm sorry. My wife could sympathize with you since I'm gone a lot on business as well.
speaker: Yes, its hard but I try to remember he does it for our family! I have been trying to adapt to enjoying alone time.",I'm sorry you feel lonely.  My wife says she ofens feels the same way.  I know your husband misses you awfully while he's away.  I love having chats with my wife every day when I'm gone.,It's wonderful that you're working on finding ways to enjoy your alone time. It's important to remember that it can also offer opportunities for personal growth and relaxation.,8,9,7,7,7
conv:17640,hopeful,"I had an interview for a job a while back, one that I really wanted to get.  It felt like it went well, but all I could do was wait.","speaker: When I interviewed for my current job, I felt like it went well but all I could do was wait.
listener: What kind of job is it?
speaker: A lab technician at a university.",Interesting! What kind of things do you do?,"I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling that way. It's understandable to feel anxious while waiting for a response, but remember that there are many factors at play. Let's keep our fingers crossed!",9,9,7,7,8
conv:21303,sad,"I went to the zoo last month, I haven't been since I was a kid. I went to a zoo that was supposed to be one of the top zoos, however I couldn't help but feel bad for the animals the whole time.","speaker: I went to the zoo last month, I haven't been since I was a kid. I went to a zoo that was supposed to be one of the top zoos, however I couldn't help but feel bad for the animals the whole time.
listener: Oh, I know exactly what you mean. It's not the same as going as a kid.
speaker: The enclosures all just seemed so tiny and it felt like none of the animals were able to have any privacy if they wanted it.","Yeah, it's no wonder these animals go crazy on humans sometimes.",I can see how going to the zoo as a child might have been a different experience. It's great that you have a new perspective to compare it to.,9,7,7,6,9
conv:20454,joyful,"The litter of puppies had been born. All of the puppies have survived, such a lucky amazing occasion.","speaker: The litter of puppies had been born!
listener: Nice, amazing to witness birth
speaker: All of the puppies survived, truly a lucky amazing occasion!","Good to hear, have fun with puppies!",That's truly heartwarming to hear! It's great that all the puppies survived. It's a beautiful sight to see them thriving.,8,9,7,6,7
conv:23991,afraid,"I did not have a car for a few years and just recently bought a new one. I was scared to drive at first, especially on the highways around here. People drive like crazy people and didn't want to get in another accident. I am getting used to it now though.","speaker: I recently bought a new car after not driving for several years and I was really scared to drive it, especially on the highway.
listener: What car did you buy?
speaker: Just a Honda Civic. People drive crazy around here. I don't want to have another car accident like the last one.",Jeez. Where do you live? I dont remember any state Ive been to with bad drivers.,It's understandable to feel that way after your previous experience. Let's focus on safe driving practices and take it one step at a time.,8,7,7,6,7
conv:16358,sentimental,"i am really happy to visit all my family back home, i live around 22 hours away from them in plane so i dont see them often","speaker: i cant wait to visit my family back home they are so far away i dont get to see them a lo
listener: When will you be going ?
speaker: in a couple of weeks i am really happy to see them it has been 5 years","Wow, I hope you have a really nice trip.","Five years is a long time, but it's also a testament to the strength of your bond with your family. I'm sure they're just as excited to see you.",8,9,8,7,8
conv:18293,devastated,"I recently found out that I have been diagnosed HIV positive, and I'm at a complete loss for words. I don't even know how to go on anymore.","speaker: I got some pretty horrible news recently. I've been diagnosed HIV positive. I'm just...lost...
listener: I'm so sorry!  Don't lose hope though. I know some science based nutrition that helps you overcome and kill it going high nutrition plant based vegan.  Look up Dr. Joel Furhman.  It'll save you from all the meds that hurt your body.
speaker: I might look into that, thank you for being supportive. I know it's nowhere near a death sentence anymore, it's just there are so many questions. Can I have kids, is a big one.","I know it must be overwhelming you but coming from someone that is fighting chronic epstein barr virus and Lupus, it will change your life.  Check out HIV and going vegan on youtube and thebody,com and so many other resources.  You might be able to reverse it and it wouldn't even be a concern for having kids.  You take care and have hope!",It's important to remember that everyone's situation is unique. Let's explore the options together and find out what's possible for you.,9,7,8,8,8
conv:19569,excited,We have a fun weekend planned. I'm happy the kids get to go to the water park this weekend. It's their favorite.,"speaker: I can't wait to go to the water park this weekend.
listener: oh that sounds nice
speaker: Yes, my kids love it so they are going to be so happy when we get there.","sounds like a great time, hopefully its not too hot out there",I'm glad the kids are looking forward to it. I'm sure they'll be thrilled when they arrive.,10,9,8,6,7
conv:20872,nostalgic,I saw these 4-color Bic pens in the store the other day. I remember when I was young and getting one was like Christmas morning!,"speaker: I saw these 4-color Bic pens in the store the other day. I remember when I was young and getting one was like Christmas morning!
listener: The ones with the little colored sliders on the end? Those were cool!
speaker: Yes! My mom used to always get me one each year before school started. Those were the coolest pens in the world!",I liked them too.,I can see why! They were a big part of my childhood. Do you still have any of those pens?,8,9,7,6,8
conv:22572,prepared,I had phone interview for a job. It went very well.,"speaker: I had phone interview for a job. It went very well
listener: great, i hope you get the job.
speaker: Thank you. I wrote down a list of questions and key points beforehand.",so you were really prepared.,You're well-prepared! That's impressive.,10,9,7,7,7
conv:18100,disgusted,"I was super grossed out last week when I had a sore throat and was coughing up a lot of phlegm. I know it's just a symptom of the cold, but it was still pretty nasty.","speaker: I had such a bad cold last week, I was coughing up a lot of nasty stuff into cups just so that it wouldn't hurt when I swallowed.
listener: did you go to the doctor
speaker: No, thankfully my symptoms weren't anything that couldn't be managed with a stiff mimosa or seven. But still, I had to throw those cups out. Yuck.",yuk for sure,"Wow, that sounds like a tough time you had with the cold last week. I'm sorry you had to go through that.",8,9,7,6,9
conv:19471,afraid,The other night when I was taking my dog out to go to the bathroom really late. I heard some rustling in the bushes and panicked.,"speaker: The other night when I was taking my dog out to go to the bathroom really late. I heard some rustling in the bushes and panicked.
listener: Guess you dog isn't one that's going to take the bullet?
speaker: Oh she was ready to fight whatever it was, but she was on a leash thankfully. No, I'm just really easily started, all that anxiety over an armadillo. Im so ashamed lol.",lol I've never seen an armadillo but that sounds freaky!,"It's understandable to feel embarrassed, but remember that it's okay to feel scared in certain situations. Don't be too hard on yourself.",8,7,8,7,7
conv:22874,content,"I was sitting on the couch after a long day. My family was all happy, watching tv together. Everything just felt right.","speaker: I was sitting on the couch after a long day taking care of work and all the mommy stuff the other day.
listener: sounds good so far
speaker: It was! My family was happy and together. Chatting and watching tv. Everything just felt right.",thats a great feeling,That sounds wonderful! It's great to have those moments where everything feels just right.,8,9,7,6,8
conv:22383,ashamed,The other day I ate a large amount of Shepard's pie. It was at night right before I went to bed.,"speaker: I couldn't sleep last night. I ended up staying up till 2am and eating a large amount of Shepard's pie.
listener: Why couldn't you sleep?
speaker: Combination of stress and new meds I think. Maybe I can get back to my old scheduled soon.",I hope so! Why are you stressed?,I'm sorry to hear you had a restless night. It's understandable to seek comfort in food during stressful times. Let's see if we can find a solution to help you sleep better.,8,9,7,6,8
conv:19137,disgusted,I found a rabbit that had been shot by someone in my yard.,"speaker: I found a rabbit that had been shot by someone in my yard
listener: That is terrible.  Was it dead or just injured?
speaker: Thank goodness it was dead, poor thing is not suffering, but some people can be so cruel.","That is true.  I would hate for people to be shooting things that close to my house, too.  Do you know who it was?","I can understand why you feel that way. It's a terrible thing to happen, and it's natural to feel upset about it.",9,9,8,6,7
conv:22640,angry,My daughter was running through the house like usual the other day. She tripped on my laptop cord and pulled it off the table and the screen cracked. I was upset.,"speaker: So, i may be in the market for a new laptop or a repair at least, thanks to a little mishap.
listener: Oh no! What happened to your laptop? if you get a new one which one are you looking at?
speaker: My daughter tripped on the cord and it smashed on the ground, not sure if it can be saved. I was pretty angry.","Ouch, What a pain that is! I can imagine, i would be the exact same in that situation.","Oh no, I'm really sorry to hear about your laptop. It must have been frustrating to have it damaged like that.",9,9,9,7,7
conv:17729,disgusted,I had such a huge spider ran past me in the bathroom. I am so grossed out by all the bugs here!,"speaker: I hope you do too! Applying is a huge step in the right direction!
listener: Could you elaborate as to why?
speaker: I had such a huge spider ran past me in the bathroom. I am so grossed out by all the bugs here!",Oh no could you call an exterminator?,I'm really sorry to hear about the spider encounter. It can be quite unsettling to come across such creatures. I can understand why you're feeling grossed out.,8,9,7,6,7
conv:17762,angry,it makes me really angry when the neighboors door poops on my yard and she does not pick it up,"speaker: i hate when my neighboors dog poops on my yard and she does nothing, i dont care if he poops if she picks it up
listener: Maybe put the poop back on your neighbors yard?
speaker: hahaha i mean he does not do it often but it is not a bad idea",Its the only way to get them to learn,"I'm really sorry to hear about your frustration with your neighbor's dog. It's understandable to feel annoyed when it happens, but it's also important to remember that everyone makes mistakes sometimes.",10,9,8,8,9
conv:21111,ashamed,"The other day I was running late. So, I jumped up and threw on some clean clothes. After I did half of my errands I noticed the shirt I was wearing was stained all over with grease.","speaker: The other day I was running late. So, I jumped up and threw on some clothes then ran out of the house.
listener: Well I hope you got there in time and nothing bad happened.
speaker: I did but when after I was out for a while I noticed the shirt I was wearing was covered in grease stains. I apparently washed it with my husbands work clothes.","Oh know! I hope you weren't heading to a job interview, haha.","Oh no, that must have been frustrating to find out your shirt was stained after wearing it out. It's unfortunate that your husband's work clothes were mixed with yours.",8,7,8,6,8
conv:18043,anxious,Tomorrow I start my new job teaching kids. I really hope it goes well!,"speaker: Tomorrow I start my new job teaching kids. I really hope it goes well!
listener: Oh wow, now that really is exciting, congratulations! Did you get the grade level and subject you wanted?
speaker: I am teaching at a small private school, so I will be teaching all the subjects for 3rd grade. I am pretty excited, just nervous.",Teaching little humans will be such a joy. I really hope you enjoy it!,"Congrats on the new job! Exciting times ahead. You're teaching all subjects for 3rd grade at a small private school. That's quite a challenge, but I'm sure you'll do great!",8,7,9,6,7
conv:24173,apprehensive,Going out today to learn a new route for my job and hoping I don't get lost.,"speaker: Going out today to learn a new route for my job and I'm hoping that I don't get lost.
listener: Are you able to learn the route first before you have to take it for your job or are they kind of just throwing you into it?
speaker: I got the assignment yesterday, and I told myself that I'd go drive around it today and tomorrow.  My boss is supposed to ride along with me the first week, and then after that I'll be on my own.",Well hopefully you're able to familiarize yourself quickly. Good luck!,"It sounds like you're feeling a bit anxious about learning the new route for your job. It's understandable to feel that way, especially when there's a time constraint. I'm here to support you, and I'm curious to hear more about your plan to learn the route.",10,9,7,7,8
conv:22281,caring,I feel protective of my children. I love them more than anything in this world.,"speaker: My children are getting old. They are starting to spread the wings. So, I would have to let go and let them fly.
listener: That can't be easy. How old are your children? Sometimes I wish we could keep our kids small forever!
speaker: I have 23, 20, 17 and 14. They are doing stuff that I question but I don't want them to not tell me stuff.","Yeah you want them to learn, but it's definitely hard to see them doing things that you might not agree with.",It's understandable to feel protective and wish they could stay young. It's a big step to let them fly. How are you feeling about this transition?,10,9,8,7,7
conv:21946,terrified,"I once woke up in the middle of the night to a weird sound, i grabbed my gun and ran for the door, it was actually the printer.","speaker: The other night i heard a sound like someone was breaking in my house, i was pretty scared.
listener: Wow, that sounds quite disturbing. Was someone breaking in?
speaker: No, it turns out the power had went out for a minute and it was the sound of the printer calibrating.",I'm glad everything turned out okay!,"Wow, that must have been quite a frightening experience for you. It's understandable to feel scared in such a situation.",8,8,8,6,7
conv:19021,anticipating,I'm going to my home country next tuesday,"speaker: I'm going to my home country next tuesday and i'm so excited i can't sleep!! It's been 4 years since i've seen my parents
listener: where is that ?
speaker: Kazakhstan. I miss it and i miss my parents and friends so much",isnt that where bruno is from ?,"Wow, it's been a while since you've seen your parents! I can understand why you're excited to visit your home country again.",8,9,9,8,7
conv:21332,prepared,I've been so busy packing and getting everything cleaned for our move soon. I like being 10 steps ahead.,"speaker: I've been packing, packing, packing and cleaning.
listener: o That sounds exciting. Moving or spring cleaning?
speaker: Moving, not sure when yet but I like to be  ahead of the game. I hate being rushed.",Ya last time I moved I was packing for about 6 months. It's smarter to do it a little at a time and get things purged and organized.,It sounds like you're really on top of things with the move. Your proactive approach is impressive!,10,9,7,6,7
conv:20855,confident,I took my final exams two weeks ago and I was sure that I had done well. I studied and got good grades on all of my quizes but when I got my results back I had failed the test and have to retake the class.,"speaker: I took my final exams a few weeks ago and I was sure I had done well, but I failed.
listener: Oh I'm so sorry to hear that!
speaker: I don't know what happened. I studied and passed everything else. Now I have to retake the class and I'm upset",Is there somewhere you can go for extra help with that course? A tutor or something?,"It's okay to feel upset, but remember that retaking the class is just a step towards improving your understanding of the subject. You've already shown that you're capable of passing other parts of the course.",8,8,9,8,7
conv:17571,angry,I went out to my car one morning to go to work.  Some kids in the condo complex had thrown food all over the top of my car.,"speaker: I went to my car one morning and found that some kids in my condo complex had thrown food all over it
listener: Wow, did you ever get them in trouble?
speaker: Sadly, no.  There's no actual proof of who it was, but we've seen them doing random stuff like that all over the place.  He did have the cops called on him for unrelated things once, so I'll take that as a victory.","There you go, take victories where you can get them!",It's good to know that the cops were called on him before. I hope this will discourage him from causing more trouble.,9,8,7,7,8
conv:19039,confident,I am confident that I will win the gaming tournament in Chicago,"speaker: I am confident that I will win the gaming tournament in Chicago
listener: What kind of gaming is it?
speaker: Shooting game",That's sounds interesting!,"Wow, I can sense your excitement about the gaming tournament! You seem really confident. I'm looking forward to seeing how it goes.",9,7,8,7,8
conv:18151,nostalgic,"When I went through one of my unpacked boxes, I found some of my ex-girlfriend's old clothes that she never picked up. I really missed her, and I started thinking about all the good times we enjoyed together.","speaker: I was unpacking the other day and realized that my ex-girlfriend didn't get all of her stuff out of my place after we split up and before I moved. Really made me miss her, seeing all that stuff.
listener: i bet it does bud, I know the feeling. So how do you deal with it
speaker: Well, I spent some time remembering the good times. Then I reminded myself that we broke up for a reason, and we'd moved on. Had to process all the way through it, you know?","yes i know, good memories do help. every relation is a new chapter in the book called our life.","I'm sorry to hear that you found your ex's clothes. It's understandable to feel a wave of memories and emotions. Remembering the good times can be bittersweet, but it's important to acknowledge the reasons for the breakup as well.",9,7,7,7,7
conv:21089,trusting,I don't like loaning money to friends because a lot of the time it doesn't get paid back or ruins the friendship. I recently loaned my friend some money because of her situation not counting on getting it back but I did.,"speaker: I like like loaning money to friends. It can ruin friendships and sometimes doesn't get paid back.
listener: I'm always leery of loaning money to friends
speaker: Yeah, I meant don't like, sorry. I recently lent some to my friend with no expectation of getting it back because of her hard situation. I actually got it back.",That was a nice surprise!  I have tried lending money to friends but finally had to stop after never getting it back,"Wow, that's great to hear! It's wonderful that you were able to help your friend and get your money back.",9,7,8,7,7
conv:18848,anticipating,I have a job interview next week. I'm hoping for the best but not getting my hopes up too much. I really need a new job,"speaker: I have a job interview next week. I'm really nervous.
listener: That's normal. Try to just be your self. I'm sure it will work out fine.
speaker: I'm hoping for the best, but not getting my hopes up too high. I need a new job!!","Amen, me too.   I hate my current job.","It's understandable to have high hopes, but remember that there are many factors at play. Keep your focus on preparing well for the interview.",9,7,9,6,7
conv:24649,embarrassed,I went out to lunch with my kids the other day. My daughter needed help opening her dipping sauce. Nothing like it squirting all over me from the waste up!,"speaker: I went to lunch the other day with my kids. My daughter needed help opening her dipping sauce and of course I did....
listener: That is sweet of you, kids are cute
speaker: They are but when I finally got it open it sprayed me from my waste all the way to my hair!","Oh that is not good, I hope you were able to clean it up easily...",That sounds like a messy situation! I'm sorry you had to deal with that.,8,9,7,6,7
conv:23503,content,It's been a great week! I got a promotion at work and my husband has been so caring!,"speaker: It's been a great week!
listener: Good! What's been going on?
speaker: I got a promotion at work that I wasn't expecting!",Woo! Congrats on that! That's always a nice surprise. What do you do?,That's wonderful to hear! It's great to have a supportive partner.,8,7,7,7,7
conv:17345,sentimental,I was looking at old photos of my family. It made me feel sad and nostalgic about the past.,"speaker: I just found a photo book of me and my family growing up.
listener: Aw, that's awesome, did it bring back memories?
speaker: It was pretty nostalgic , how young we all looked growing up.","Yeah, it's always nice to take a look back and reflect on the early days.","I can see why you'd feel nostalgic looking at those old photos. It's always a trip down memory lane, isn't it?",10,8,7,7,9
conv:20835,sentimental,"Seeing his sad eyes my heart suffers, my daughter is my weakness","speaker: Hello ... I confess that when I see my daughter's eyes, my heart suffers.
listener: Wow,  what happened to her eyes?
speaker: They are sick",Ohhh sorry about that. It is well.,I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's understandable to feel concerned about your daughter's well-being. Let's talk more about what might be causing her sadness.,10,9,8,6,7
conv:21076,devastated,"I got turned down for a job I really wanted.  I'd worked extremely hard to put myself in a position to have a decent chance of getting it, and I thought I interviewed really well.  But when I found out someone else got the job I was extremely disappointed and demoralized.","speaker: I got turned down for a job I really wanted.
listener: Ugh, sorry! You must be disappointed. But remember if the door doesn't open, it probably wasn't yours. There's something else in store for you!
speaker: Thanks.  But yes, I was really dejected.  I thought I'd interviewed well and had a good enough resume.",Sometimes they already have a candidate in mind but have to go through the motion...the same thing happened to my husband. Your time will come.,I'm really sorry to hear that you didn't get the job you wanted. It's understandable to feel disappointed and demoralized after putting in so much effort. Let's talk about what you can learn from this experience and how you can apply it to future opportunities.,9,7,7,6,8
conv:19346,surprised,"My whole family from out of town showed up to my kids birthday, they didn't tell me they were coming.","speaker: My kids birthday was last weekend, my whole family showed up! they didn't even tell me they were coming
listener: Wow, that had to be quite a surprise.  I hope you like them
speaker: Yea, i do. hah. They live a few states away, which is why it was so unexpected. don't see them often.",Well thats good.  Hopefully it was a good party!,"Wow, that must have been quite a surprise! It's great to see your family, even if it was unexpected.",9,9,7,6,7
conv:20087,ashamed,When i was a child a stole my mother's card details to pay for a subscription.,"speaker: I actually did this, i'm terrible.
listener: Did what?
speaker: I stole my mother's card details to pay for a subscription.",I have too... to pay for food though. She told me that she would have paid if I asked but I am too proud.,"I'm sorry to hear about what you did as a child. It's understandable that you might feel guilty, but remember, we all make mistakes. It doesn't define who you are now.",9,7,7,7,7
conv:19118,angry,"i hate when my kids leave their clothes all over the floor, i punish their video games but they still manage to leave their clothes on the floor","speaker: i really hate when my kids leave their dirty clothes on the floor
listener: I can imagine they are a right pain to pick up after!
speaker: yeah they even have a bin specially for that",What an annoyance!,I can understand how frustrating it is to see your kids' clothes scattered around. It's tough to maintain order when they don't use their designated bin.,9,7,8,8,8
conv:17795,devastated,"My husband's grandmother and I were very close. We hung out and talked every day. One Friday she called me and asked me to go to breakfast with her. While at breakfast, she told me that her and her husband were going on vacation. She was so excited. They left the next morning and I called and told her to have fun and be safe. She told me she would and that she loved, and I told her I loved her. Early the next morning, we found out that she had a heart attack and had died. I was heart broken.","speaker: My husband's grandmother and I were very close. We hung out and talked everyday. One Friday, we went to breakfast and she told me that her and her husband were going on vacation the next day. She was so excited. The next morning I called her after they had left and told her to be safe, have fun, and that I loved her. She told me she loved me too. The morning after that phone call, we found out that she had a heart attack and died.
listener: Oh my. That is very unfortunate.
speaker: Yes, it hit our whole family very hard. That was in 2013, and sometimes I still pick up the phone to call her and tell her something.",I know that feeling. Im sure she is looking down on you all.,I'm so sorry for your loss. It's understandable that you still feel the urge to reach out to her.,9,7,7,6,8
conv:20922,ashamed,I lost the book that my friend let me borrow. I feel so embarrassed.,"speaker: I lost the book that my friend let me borrow. I feel so embarrassed.
listener: Oh no! Can you replace it?
speaker: I'm trying to find a new one, but this one was rare and hard to find.",I'm sure your friend will be understanding that it was a mistake.,"I'm sorry to hear that. It's understandable to feel embarrassed, but remember, it's just a book, and your friend will likely understand.",8,7,8,7,9
conv:19049,furious,A public road in front of my house closed because of a limestone mine.,"speaker: I am so upset that a public road in front of my house closed because of a limestone mine.
listener: That sounds frustrating. How did it affect you?
speaker: It is hard because cars come up the road all the time and turn around in my drive.","Ooh, that would be aggravating. I guess there isn't much you can do.",I'm really sorry to hear that you're upset about the road closure. It can be frustrating to have changes in our daily routines.,10,8,7,6,7
conv:22014,faithful,When the England national team made the semi-finals of the World Cup.,"speaker: When the England national team made the semi-finals of the World Cup
listener: Was that a good day for you?
speaker: So good, genuinely had my faith restored in the national team and everyone was having a good time larking about in good weather!",That's amazing! Sounds like a beauty day! Are you English?,It's clear you're really happy about the team's performance and the overall atmosphere. I'm glad you enjoyed the day!,8,8,9,8,8
conv:17451,jealous,jealous: I hate it when other guys look at my girl,"speaker: I hate it when other guys look at my girl
listener: ooh, you should not be, she should be appreciated for looking good
speaker: She's for my eyes only. At least she doesn't pay them any attention. Or I would flip!","aha, thats funny though","I understand how you feel, it's natural to feel protective over someone you care about. It's important to remember that her confidence and self-worth come from within, not from others' attention.",8,7,7,8,8
conv:19494,anticipating,I have a friend coming over soon and I keep checking out the window to see if theyre here yet.,"speaker: I have a friend coming over soon and I keep checking out the window to see if theyre here yet.
listener: what do you all have planned
speaker: I am making dinner for the both of us. I have a roast in the oven. It smells so good I can't wait until it is ready.","that sounds nice, must be a really good ""friend""",I can understand your eagerness to see your friend. It's always exciting to catch up with someone we care about.,10,9,8,6,8
conv:21153,hopeful,my son went for his first day of kindergarten. He likes it so far so thats good.,"speaker: I took my son to kindergarten the other day. He loves it so far!
listener: that is good! did he make any friends?
speaker: You bet! He made a girlfriend on the bus by talking about Zelda.",That is really cute!,That's wonderful to hear! It's great that your son made a friend on the first day. How did he interact with his new friend?,8,8,7,6,9
conv:20979,content,"The older I get, the more relaxed and just a simple happy and calm feeling I have. It is nice to just enjoy being alive.","speaker: The older I get, the more relaxed and just a simple happy and calm feeling I have. It is nice to just enjoy being alive.
listener: I agree. The sound of birdsong, a gentle breeze on a summer's day, the purring of your tabby-cat. You can't beat that, can you?
speaker: Those examples are definitely the simple pleasures of life. It makes me want to go outside and listen to the birds and smell the flowers.","You should! Forget about your worries, if only for a moment. You'll return feeling refreshed.",It's wonderful to hear about your newfound sense of calm and happiness. The simple pleasures you mentioned truly resonate with me.,8,7,7,8,9
conv:21843,content,I spent a weekend at a lake house all by myself.  It was incredibly quiet and peaceful and no one bothered me.  I was so happy just to get away from it all and take things slow.,"speaker: I spent a weekend at a lake house all by myself.
listener: Oh, I would love time away like that! How did you enjoy it?
speaker: It was fantastic.  I found it so restful and peaceful just to get away from it all for a while.",That sounds wonderful! My body is craving something like this. Thanks for the inspiration!,That sounds wonderful! I can only imagine how peaceful and rejuvenating it must have been for you to have that quiet time to yourself.,8,8,7,7,7
conv:18537,sad,My roommate's cat passed away last week. There is a heavy air over the household.,"speaker: My roommate's cat passed away last week. There is a heavy air over the household.
listener: I bet. That is so sad. I am so sorry.
speaker: Yeah hes really lost without her. It was unexpected.",I bet! I hope they can find peace soon.,I can imagine how hard it must be for your roommate. Losing a pet can be very difficult.,8,7,9,7,8
conv:17920,anxious,My daughter called and said they were taking my newborn grandson to the doctor to have a chest xray because he was having some breathing trouble. I worried all day long until I got the phone call telling me everything was ok. They live far away so I tend to worry even more since I can't be there.,"speaker: My daughter called and said my grandson had to have a chest xray because he was having trouble breathing. I was so worried I didn't know what to do with myself.
listener: Oh no, have you been able to calm yourself down?
speaker: She called several hours later to let me know everything was ok. I worry even more because they live so far away.","I can understand that, I think I would be a mess too.",I'm so relieved to hear that your grandson is okay. It's understandable to worry when they live far away.,8,8,9,6,8
conv:22535,caring,I had to take my daughter to the doctor the other day. She was very sick. Turns out she had the flu.,"speaker: I had to take my daughter to the doctor the other day. She was very sick.
listener: Oh no!  Hopefully its just the flu.  What did they say?
speaker: It was just the flu. I got her some medicine, brought her home, and made tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwiches.",That's good!  I hope she gets to feeling better soon.  The flu is no fun.,I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. She's lucky to have you taking such good care of her.,8,8,7,7,8
conv:23560,devastated,I was really stressed out and grad school and had no choice but to drop out to keep my sanity.,"speaker: I was really stressed out and grad school and had no choice but to drop out to keep my sanity.
listener: Good choice. You're health is more important than some grad degree.
speaker: That is what I was thinking at the time, but I've been having a really tough time finding a job where I can advance into a higher position. I always seem to get positions with no mobility.",I think nowadays employers just want experience. So it should be easier once you have that.,"I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling to find a job with advancement opportunities. It's understandable to feel frustrated, but let's explore other possibilities together.",10,8,9,7,7
conv:17527,surprised,I just told my next door neighbor that I'm moving out. He said he'd be really sorry to see me go. I really didn't expect him to say that - we only really see each other when he's walking his dog.,"speaker: I'm moving into another apartment and just told my neighbor I was leaving. He said he was sorry I'm going!
listener: How long have you been there ?
speaker: About a year and a half. I really didn't expect him to say that - we don't know each other that well.",Sometimes we affect people that we don't realize.,"It's understandable that you might think that, given your limited interaction. But it's also possible that he genuinely cares about you as a neighbor. It's true that you don't see each other often, but it's also important to remember the positive interactions you've had, like sharing the neighborhood.",9,7,7,6,7
conv:17749,embarrassed,I went to work with my pants inside out.,"speaker: I went to work with my pants inside out, and I didn't notice until my secretary pointed it out.
listener: Omg i would have been so embarrassed! :O
speaker: It was very embarrassing! At least I didn't go the whole day like that.",thats true imagine if you had! it takes a lot of talent tho to put your pants on inside out and still manage to button them. ha ha,"I'm sorry you felt embarrassed, but it's understandable. It happens to the best of us.",8,7,9,8,7
conv:22042,impressed,My son's soccer coach said nice things about his play last year and told me he would do what he could to get him on his team this year as well.,"speaker: My son's soccer coach said nice things about his play last year and told me he would do what he could to get him on his team this year as well.
listener: That sounds awesome, I'm glad he did well.
speaker: I am, too!  I'm glad he's doing something he loves.  At this point, I'm just waiting on the text to see which team he made it onto.",I hope he gets the team he wants.,That's wonderful news! I'm thrilled to hear your son did well in soccer last year and has a chance to continue playing this year. I'm excited to see which team he'll be on.,8,8,9,8,9
conv:16984,guilty,Last night I met a beautiful girl at the bar. One thing let to another and we ending up spending the night together.,"speaker: I have a beautiful girl friend. But I met someone else.
listener: on to the next one, as they say!
speaker: I'm trying to figure out how to kick her out of my place.",have the new chick there when she comes home,"Wow, that sounds exciting! You've met someone new. It's natural to feel a bit unsure about the situation. Have you thought about discussing your feelings with her?",8,7,7,6,9
conv:17826,disappointed,"I saved up money to buy a certain dress, but once I had the money the dress was sold out and the only place that had it available was Ebay for double to original price. It was a big let-down.","speaker: I saved up the money to buy a certain dress that I had been wanting for a while. When I finally got the money saved, it was sold out everywhere, except Ebay. The problem was, the price was doubled.
listener: Oh My!! What are you going to do? I would buy it anyway.
speaker: I may buy it still, but I have to save up more money now.",Well thats unfortunate. Hopefully you will be able to buy it soon.,That's too bad the dress was sold out. It must feel frustrating to have saved up for it and not be able to find it at the original price. Are there any other options you'd consider or would you like to keep looking for it?,9,7,9,7,9
conv:19297,lonely,I am by myself most of the time in a isolated area. I only have animals as my friends.,"speaker: ""I am by myself most of the time in a isolated area. I only have animals as my friends.
listener: oh does that sadden you?
speaker: Sometimes it makes me sad, but than I think how happy my animal friends makes me feel.","animals are far better than humans, most humans have long lot their way and follow only their desires, i am also like you and i embrace it and smile :)","It sounds like being alone sometimes makes you feel sad, but you find comfort in your animal friends. It's understandable to feel that way, and it's great that you have companionship in your animals.",8,7,8,7,9
conv:22500,furious,I was upset that my daughter total the car in the accident. She said that she was not responsible for the accident.,"speaker: It is so upsetting that my daughter was in a car accident. I am thankful that she was fine but we lost our car because of someone's bad judgment.
listener: Oh, no! That's so terrible!
speaker: It was. They wanted to blame my daughter but it was their fault.","I'm so sorry that happened! I'm glad she's okay, though.","I'm really sorry to hear about the accident and the loss of your car. It's understandable to feel upset and frustrated, but it's important to remember that sometimes accidents can have multiple contributing factors.",8,7,7,6,7
conv:17431,faithful,"I was at a wedding reception with a bunch of old friends. My buddies wife, who had quite a bit to drink, was hitting on me when he left to get a drink. I told her to sober up and let my friend know he should probably take his wife home.","speaker: I went to a wedding recently, and something happened that put a damper on it. I felt bad for my buddy, but at least he knows he can trust me.
listener: Oh no, it's awful something happens on that special day that should be full of joy and whatnot.
speaker: Yeah, his wife got drunk and paid a pass at me. I told her to sober up, and let him know what had happened.","Yikes. Well, at least you did the right thing by passing that long, as painful as it might have been.","That must have been a tough situation for you. It's important to trust friends, but it's also crucial to maintain boundaries.",9,7,7,8,9
conv:21731,apprehensive,"At dinner the other night, my family ordered three diet cokes.  They all came out a different shade from dark to light.  I was pretty concerned with the quality of the drinks when they were delivered.","speaker: We ordered 3 diet cokes with dinner the other night, and they all came out a different shade of coloring!
listener: Wow that is weird.  I love Diet Coke.  What was wrong with it?
speaker: I was concerned they were the wrong drink order, we lined them up and talked to the server and together figured out the syrup bag must be going empty!","Nothing worse than a bad soda! lol.  I like the new Freestyle machines, it's always just right.",That's quite unusual! I've never heard of Diet Coke coming in different shades before. It must have been a strange mix-up.,9,8,9,7,8
conv:22718,terrified,"My car broke down on the busy highway the other day. There were so many cars, it was scary!","speaker: My car broke down on a busy highway the other day. There were so many cars zooming past me, it was scary!
listener: that is very scary, how did you get home
speaker: My brother had to pick me up. He had to pull up behind me on the curb. It felt dangerous!","that is dangerous, glad that both of your are okay","Wow, that sounds terrifying! I'm glad you're safe now.",8,8,7,8,8
conv:22518,content,I was able to go back home for a few weeks recently. It was wonderful I haven't felt that relaxed in a long time.,"speaker: I was able to go back home to my parents for a few weeks recently. It was wonderful to relax in my childhood home.
listener: It's always nice to visit home. Did your parents enjoy your visit?
speaker: They loved having me around again! Our ten year old dog wouldn't leave my side.",Ha ha! I bet. Dogs are the best. I bet he missed you just as much as they did.,It sounds like your parents and your dog were happy to have you back home.,10,9,8,7,8
conv:20337,devastated,I was devastated when my dog died,"speaker: I was so sad when I had to put my dog down last year
listener: Oh. I'm sorry. How old was your dog?
speaker: She was 12.  It was old age but it was so hard because I had had her for years.",Have you thought about getting another dog?,"It's heartbreaking to say goodbye to a pet, no matter the circumstances. You gave her a wonderful life for 12 years.",8,8,9,6,7
conv:20112,ashamed,I sat in my kitchen eating an entire cake to myself in the middle of the night. I felt so wrong but so great!,"speaker: The other night I wanted cake when I woke up in the middle of the night
listener: Oh I get those midnight cravings all the time!
speaker: The worst part was that there was a cake to be eaten! SO I DID! Lmao",You want cake? Cake is there? Obviously you have to eat it! Lol,"Wow, it sounds like you really enjoyed that late-night cake! It's amazing how food can bring us comfort sometimes.",9,7,8,6,9
conv:21850,grateful,I've been out of work recently and my father has been helping me pay my bills. I have no way to ever repay him.,"speaker: I've been out of work, and my dads been helping me financially.
listener: I am sorry that you are out of work.  Have you had any job interviews? It is good that your father is able to help you during this time.
speaker: No, I am filing for disability. Theres no way I can ever repay him","Well, I am glad you will hopefully get some disability income.  It sounds like your dad isn't the type who expects to be repayed.  He sounds like a great parent.","I'm sorry to hear that you feel this way. It's understandable to feel overwhelmed by the situation, but it's important to remember that every situation is unique. Let's explore other options together.",10,8,7,7,9
conv:19772,content,I was eating dinner last night and and I just felt so happy for a moment it was great,"speaker: I was eating dinner with my husband last night and I was so happy
listener: Sometimes the simplest things are the nicest
speaker: I whole heatedly agree! It was just so freeing and peaceful",I hope you have many more then!,"That sounds wonderful, dear. I'm glad you felt so free and peaceful during dinner.",8,8,7,8,9
conv:23537,devastated,"My father had a large tumor removed from his kidney. They thought the surgery successful and he was recovering. On the third day he passed away suddenly, with no known cause of death.","speaker: My family is still hasn't recovered from the untimely passing of my father two years ago.
listener: I am so sorry to hear that. It can't be easy for you and your family.
speaker: My siblings and I are managing, and have found some peace. My mother is a different story. It was just so sudden and unexpected.",No doubt it will take time to process. I wish your family the best. Stay strong my friend.,"I'm so sorry for your loss and the ongoing struggle. It's understandable that you and your family are still grieving, and it's important to remember that everyone copes differently. Your mother's feelings are valid, and it's okay if you're not all on the same page in your recovery process.",10,9,9,6,8
conv:20500,jealous,One day I found out that my boyfriend was texting his ex-girlfriend. I think he likes her more than he likes me,"speaker: I caught my boyfriend texting his ex
listener: Wow. Dump him and beat him up!
speaker: I think he will dump me soon. He would rather be with her, I just know it","That is unfortunate, he is a scumbag. I hope you find yourself a nice and wealthy boyfriend!",I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's understandable to feel hurt when you find out about something like this. Let's talk more about it if you'd like.,8,7,9,6,7
conv:24329,embarrassed,I forgot my mother-in-laws birthday this year and can't look her in the eye! My husband was working away from home and forgot to remind me.,"speaker: I forgot my mother-in-law's birthday this year and can't look her in the eye!
listener: I'm sure she understands, just tell the truth!
speaker: I just feel so embarrassed - she never forgets my birthday. And my husband was away and didn't remind me :(","Yeah, I'd be pretty scared too, but it's better to be upfront about it to get it off your chest","It's understandable that you feel embarrassed, but let's not jump to conclusions. Maybe she's forgotten someone's birthday before too.",8,7,8,6,9
conv:21753,content,My wife made me pancakes for breakfast. I have a full belly and feel rather happy now.,"speaker: My wife made me pancakes for breakfast. I have a full belly and feel rather happy now.
listener: Yum!!! I love pancakes. Is it your favorite food too?
speaker: One of my favorite breakfast foods. She also made some thick sliced bacon. She treats me so well.
listener: That is great you have a sweet wife!
speaker: For sure, no other woman I would rather have.
listener: It is so great to hear about a happy couple :)
speaker: How can I complain when she gets up early to make me such a great meal!",I bet she is a great cook!,"Wow, it sounds like you're really appreciative of your wife's thoughtfulness. It's great to have someone who goes out of their way to make you feel special.",9,9,8,6,9
conv:22515,guilty,I screwed up plans for a date night with my wife. We ended up having to cancel and she was really mad about it.,"speaker: I screwed up plans for a date night with my wife. We ended up having to cancel and she was really mad about it.
listener: Oh I bet you were pretty upset. Did you guys reschedule?
speaker: We did and I made sure to not screw that one up!",Haha good! I'm glad that one went well.,That's great to hear! It's important to learn from past experiences and make improvements for the future. I'm confident you'll have a wonderful time together.,9,8,8,8,7
conv:19457,sentimental,"Today when I went into my roommate's office to fix the internet, I noticed the collar of his old cat that passed away. I miss her.","speaker: Today when I went into my roommate's office to fix the internet, I noticed the collar of his old cat that passed away. I miss her.
listener: I am so sorry to hear that. We need memories of our fur babies to help us in our grief.
speaker: Yeah, she wasn't my favorite cat, but I still miss her. Cancer sucks.",People do not realize that Animals can get cancer too.  Its more common than we may think.,I'm sorry to hear that cancer took your cat. It's understandable to feel upset about that.,9,7,7,7,9
conv:20461,guilty,I forgot to take some water bottles out from under my cart. I left with my groceries and ended up just taking the bottles and realized I didn't pay later,"speaker: I forgot to take some water bottles out from under my cart and pay for them at the store. I didn't realize I didn't pay for them till later.
listener: Oh no! I've done that before too
speaker: Hopefully I don't get bad karma for my accidental theft!",I hope not too!,"It's natural to worry about the consequences of our actions, but it's important to remember that we can't control everything. Let's focus on what we can control, like being more mindful of our belongings and paying for them promptly.",10,8,8,6,7
conv:20081,trusting,I have a friend that I have known for many years. I recently gave her some money that she promised she would pay back but now I haven't heard a word from her. I thought I could count on her but I guess I can't.,"speaker: I gave my friend some money that she said she would pay back but she hasn't yet.
listener: I hate when that happens!
speaker: I really thought  I could count on her, but now I haven't even heard a word from her. Lesson learned I guess.",That's how it goes. I usually consider the money as a lost cause when lending to friends.,I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling let down. It's understandable to feel that way when someone we trust doesn't follow through. Let's talk more about this situation and see if there's anything we can do to resolve it.,9,8,7,8,9
conv:22065,grateful,"when i was going through a divorce, money was tight, my mom stepped in and helped with attorney fees, was so helpful.","speaker: I went through a divorce last year, which caught me off guard financially, luckily my mom was able to help with some of the costs.
listener: That would be rough.  Hopefully youre in a better spot now!  Thats awesome you had family to help you out too!
speaker: Yea i'm much better now, thanks to my mom. Attorneys make a killing on these types of things.","I bet they do! I mean they do go to school for a while and study hard, plus the schools arent cheap but they still dont have to charge as much as they do!","I'm glad to hear you're in a better place now. It's understandable to feel frustrated about the cost of attorneys, but it's also important to acknowledge the support you've received from your mom.",9,7,7,6,8
conv:24300,caring,When a baby bird was alone,"speaker: I felt a need to help when the baby bird was by itself
listener: That 's nice of you.  Did you keep it as a pet
speaker: I did not, I was little but I think I put it back into a tree",Cool.  Some birds shouldn't be in captivity.  What kind of bird was it,"You seemed to have a caring heart when you felt the need to help the baby bird. It's wonderful to see such compassion in people, even at a young age. Did you feel a sense of accomplishment when you put it back into the tree?",8,8,7,7,8
conv:20455,surprised,Easter when my dad had the whole yard covered with eggs,"speaker: I was totally caught off guard as a kid when the entire yard was covered in Easter eggs
listener: wow, who was the won who littered your yard with easter eggs?
speaker: My dad, but he wouldn't admit it! haha","Nice, he probably made you pick them all up too!","It seems like you felt your dad was responsible for the Easter egg hunt, even though he didn't admit it. It's natural to make assumptions, but it's also important to remember that people's actions can sometimes be complex and multifaceted.",8,7,8,8,9
conv:21293,sentimental,"Been going through stuff for our move and I just can't get myself to part with some things. My grandma gave me this sewing machines, it's huge but it meant a lot to her so I just can't let it go.","speaker: So we are moving and I'm having trouble letting go of a sewing machine my grandma gave me. Thinking I should keep it.
listener: Do you get much use out of it, or is it just collection dust?
speaker: Kind of just dust. It meant a lot to her that I have it so I just don't think I can let it go.","I guess you can hang on to it, or maybe there's someone else you both know who can show it some proper lovin'.","It's understandable that you're having trouble letting go of the sewing machine your grandma gave you. It holds sentimental value, and that's important.",10,8,9,7,9
conv:19025,prepared,I am prepared to go camping tonight in the woods,speaker: I am prepared to go camping tonight in the woods,I am prepared to go camping tonight in the woods,That sounds exciting! I can't wait to hear about your camping adventure.,10,7,7,7,7
conv:23963,ashamed,My husband and I had an argument a few weeks ago. I got pretty mad and said some things I wished I hadn't. I felt bad and disappointed in my actions aferwards.,"speaker: A few weeks ago, my husband and I had a big argument. I said some pretty hurtful things, and wished I hadn't. I felt very bad and disappointed in myself afterwards.
listener: I am single and never been married. I assume arguments are part of marriage.
speaker: Yes, that's true. I tend to be a bit more verbal on my end and say things I regret later.",Im bad at giving advice especially to people I dont know. Im the opposite. Im too mellow. And that sometimes gets me in trouble.,"I'm sorry to hear about the argument and the hurtful words you said. It's understandable to feel bad afterwards, but remember that arguments are a part of many relationships. You're not a bad person for having an argument, and it's important to learn from the experience and grow from it.",8,7,9,8,8
conv:20477,sentimental,One time I found a photo album of pictures from my childhood. Looking at it really brought back memories,"speaker: I found an old photo album of my family. It really brought back memories.
listener: It's good to remember days gone by
speaker: It's kind of a bittersweet experience","Yea, like you can remember those times but things are different","I can understand why you might feel that way, as memories can often be a mix of emotions.",10,8,9,8,7
conv:20646,ashamed,"I recently wrecked my car. There were no injuries, but I feel terrible.","speaker: I recently totaled my car. There were no injuries but I feel absolutely terrible
listener: Oh no! I've been there. How did it happen?
speaker: It was very wet and I took a turn at too high of a speed.",I'm glad your safe! Those roads can be dangerous.,"Wow, that sounds like a challenging situation to be in, especially with the wet conditions. It's important to be careful in those situations.",10,7,7,7,7
conv:22644,surprised,"I woke up the other morning, got ready and drove all the way to work. Just to find out it was a holiday and we had the day off.","speaker: I woke up the other morning, got ready and drove all the way to work. Just to find out it was a holiday and we had the day off.
listener: Oh man that sucks. I'm so sorry because you could have slept in lol
speaker: I know, but the extra day of work was nice. Especially since I wasn't expecting it.
listener: See there's always a bright side. You got a surprise day off from work!!!
speaker: It was wonderful. I ended up being twice as productive since I got up early.",That's awesome. Days off are the best!!,I'm sorry you had to drive all the way to work for nothing. It can be frustrating when things don't go as expected.,8,7,9,7,8
conv:19264,surprised,I could not believe my eyes when we came home from vacation and the house was clean from top to bottom. The kids had to stay home and decided to help out before we got back. Wonders never cease to amaze me.,"speaker: We went on vacation and the kids stayed home. I couldn't believe it when I walked in the door and the house was totally clean.
listener: Lol! I thought you were going to say MESSY! Good kids!
speaker: Wonders never cease to amaze me. First time for everything I guess, lol
listener: So true! Maybe they want something or they did something bad and are hiding it lol
speaker: I totally thought the same thing. Too funny (but you might be right)","Lol ;) Well enjoy the clean house, don't worry about the rest!","Wow, it's great to hear that the kids helped out while you were away! It's always a pleasant surprise when things turn out better than expected.",8,8,8,7,8
conv:18991,ashamed,I once put googly eyes on a potato and had a nice dinner date with it.  I was really lonely at the time and was doing anything I could to keep occupied.,"speaker: I was really lonely and depressed at one point, and I had a dinner date with a potato I put googly eyes on.
listener: Haha, that's a nice way to enjoy a sad moment, how are you feeling recently?
speaker: Much better, thanks :)  Yeah, I was really just doing anything to feel a connection.",I'm happy to hear you're doing better. If you feel that way again please reach out.,That sounds like a creative way to cope with loneliness. How else have you found to connect with yourself during tough times?,9,9,7,7,9